On the complex and ever-changing stage of life, each of us is an actor and an audience at the same time. We have to observe the performances of others as well as take responsibility for our own performances. In the process, we will inevitably encounter a variety of people and things, some of which will make us feel comfortable and at ease, while others will make us feel confused and uneasy. However, no matter what the situation is, we need to keep a clear head and a steady mood, and don't show our hole cards easily.
First of all, we need to understand the importance of "speaking carefully". If you say too much, you will lose, this is the wisdom left to us by the ancients. In the process of interacting with others, we should always remind ourselves to be cautious in what we say, and not to express our thoughts and opinions unreservedly because of momentary excitement or fate. We should learn to observe the other person's attitude and reaction, so as to better grasp the initiative of the discourse. At the same time, we must also learn to listen to the opinions and suggestions of others, not to blindly emphasize our own positions and opinions, but to respect the opinions of others, and seek consensus and compromise.
Second, we need to know the wisdom of "clumsiness." In interpersonal communication, over-publicizing one's talents and abilities often brings unnecessary trouble and distress to oneself. We should learn to hide our strength and ability appropriately, and not show our hole cards easily. Doing so will not only avoid arousing jealousy and suspicion in others, but will also allow you to better adapt to changes and challenges in your environment. At the same time, we must also learn to be humble and low-key, not self-righteous and arrogant, but to always maintain a humble attitude and continue to learn and progress.
Finally, we need to understand the principle of "don't show your hole cards lightly". On the stage of life, everyone will have their own hole cards and secrets, which are the basis for our survival and development. If we easily reveal our hole cards, we are putting our destiny in the hands of others. Therefore, we must learn to protect our hole cards and secrets, and not to give them away to others easily. At the same time, we also need to learn to recognize people and things, and understand other people's hole cards and secrets, so as to better cope with complex interpersonal relationships and challenges.
In specific practice, the wisdom of "don't easily show your hole cards" can be reflected in the following aspects:
First, in career development, we must learn to protect our career plans and goals. Do not easily disclose your career plans and goals to your colleagues or superiors, so as not to be taken advantage of by others or suffer unnecessary interference and hindrance. At the same time, we also need to learn to understand other people's career plans and goals so that we can better cooperate and communicate with them.
Second, in relationships, we need to learn to protect our privacy and secrets. Don't give away your privacy and secrets to friends or family members to avoid being hurt or leaked by others. At the same time, we must also learn to respect other people's privacy and secrets, and not to excessively ** other people's private lives or spread other people's secrets.
Third, in our personal growth, we must learn to maintain a humble and low-key attitude. Don't easily show your talents and abilities to others, so as not to arouse jealousy or aggression from others. At the same time, we must also learn to continue to learn and progress, and constantly improve our ability and quality.
In short, the wisdom of "Flexibility" tells us: cautious, clumsy, and not easy to show the hole cards is a kind of life wisdom. It reminds us to keep a clear head and stable emotions at all times, and not to easily express our thoughts and hole cards because of a momentary fate or impulse. We should learn to deal with various problems in interpersonal and work relationships carefully in order to better cope with the complex and changing challenges of life.
At the same time, the wisdom of "Flexibility" also tells us: life is like a play, and it all depends on acting skills. We need to keep learning and growing to improve our acting skills and abilities. Only in this way can we better show ourselves, realize ourselves, and surpass ourselves on the stage of life!
Adaptation: A Life's Worth of Learning" is a book that contains a lot of wisdom that is worth reading and re-reading, and because the content is too true, it has been banned for thousands of years, and many people who are officials and businessmen are secretly circulating.
Writer Liu Run once said: "Mediocre people change the results, excellent people change the causes, and the most advanced people change their thinking." ”
Flexibility: The Learning of a Lifetime is about the wisdom of flexibility, life will always encounter difficulties, it will teach you to think about things with negative thinking, and quickly find a shortcut to a solution.
The book takes "flexibility" as the starting point, and expounds the importance of flexibility to us from all aspects of life, such as life, interpersonal relationships, and life, through the perfect combination of philosophical expositions and classic stories. It can be said that it is full of dry goods!
Successful people are not saints who are committed to changing the world, but ordinary people who are good at adapting to the world! "Thinking is changing, change is clear, and general is reaching", that's the truth!
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