8 behaviors that a boy can do to lose his charm
1.Not confident enough.
Your withdrawal and cowardice make it impossible for you to show your beauty with confidence, and others will not see your goodness. Have positive psychological cues for yourself, build up your confidence through trial and error, and don't label yourself negatively.
2.Loved to explain.
People who understand you, no need to explain, people who don't understand you, no need to explain. Always afraid that others won't like you, everything is said very clearly, and there is no mystery at all.
3.I can't keep my mouth shut.
Trouble comes from the mouth, it is better to be silent than to talk too much, and the highest cultivation of a person is to control his mouth. Other people's affairs are not allowed to talk nonsense! Do your own thing, keep your mouth shut, and treat other people and things indifferently.
4.Speak deeply.
Interacting with others and avoiding friendship is a kind of wisdom to protect yourself. When you meet people, you only say three points, and you can't throw away all your hearts. Be sincere and frank, but also be clear about who you are talking to. Be reserved for others and yourself, and don't give others a chance to cut the knife.
5.Overly worrying.
Whether you live or work, worry about each other everywhere, have you eaten enough? Do you wear something thicker? When the person is instructed to be a "guardian" on a daily basis. Don't worry about it, you can't take care of yourself, you still care about others so much, love yourself more.
6.The mouth is hard and the heart is soft.
said cruel words, turned around and regretted it, and then began a series of kneeling and licking operations. Kneeling and flattering can never be exchanged for respect and appreciation.
7.Circle around others.
Only by focusing on oneself can it be nourished; Any act of revolving around others is a drain. Give up living for others, live only for yourself, don't follow others, be yourself.
8.I like to get to the bottom of it.
Some people encounter things and ask the bottom endlessly, which is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, since people don't want to say, they must not be able to say, and the bottom of the problem seems to be too low EQ and does not understand human feelings.
What is emotional intelligence.
One. Emotional intelligence is:
When others scold you, listen silently; When others praise you, smile in response. Don't take it too seriously, and don't believe it easily.
Emotional intelligence is: it's okay for others to laugh at themselves, but don't go along with it, think twice before you speak.
Three, emotional intelligence is:
When talking to others, I don't know what to talk about, so I use food as a talking point.
Fourth, emotional intelligence is:
Know how to refuse, be good at praise, have the courage to praise, and choose wisely.
5. Emotional intelligence is:
If you don't like someone in your heart, don't speak ill of them, and don't keep muttering about their inadequacies in your heart.
6. Emotional intelligence is:
Don't ask what others don't want to disclose, so as not to embarrass and embarrass people.
7. Emotional intelligence is:
In conversation, Mo Dao is wrong, because every bad word you say will become a stumbling block on your way forward in the future, and you will eventually hurt yourself.