The Dragon's Quest for the New Year
The Chinese New Year is the best standard for testing feelings.
Because of the Chinese New Year, there will be a lot of things, including who to go to for the New Year, personal exchanges, gifts and returns, all kinds of things are mixed together, and it is easy to break out conflicts.
Originally, the New Year should be a happy thing, but if there are contradictions, it will affect the atmosphere of the New Year and make a bad start to the New Year.
Measure a man's love, and have the answer to spend the Spring Festival with him.
If he loves you, there will be these manifestations during the Chinese New Year.
A younger sister married away from home, and after getting married, she would return to her parents' house every year for the New Year.
I asked her, "You come back to your parents' house every year for the New Year, do your in-laws have no opinion?" ”
She said that her brother-in-law took the initiative to mention it to her, and her brother-in-law said that she married into their family and couldn't see her mother's family for a year.
As for the in-laws' family, the brother-in-law is settled.
This is the attitude that a man who truly loves you should have.
He will think about what you think, will stand in your perspective, put himself in your shoes, and will also be your backing, communicate with your in-laws, and do his best to meet your wishes.
This reminds me of a news I once saw, the woman also married away from home, and when she got married, her husband promised her to take turns to spend the New Year in both homes.
But after marriage, her husband insisted that she spend the New Year at her in-law's house, and finally agreed to accompany her back to her parents' house, but changed the direction of the car halfway and drove back to her mother-in-law's house.
A man who doesn't love you will be selfish and won't think about your thoughts and only care about his family's feelings.
My best friend sent me a **, in which her husband was wearing an apron and cooking in the kitchen, while she was sipping melon seeds and swiping her mobile phone.
This is the norm in the married life of the two of them.
After getting married, her husband took the initiative to take on the matter of cooking, because her best friend said that she hated cooking and didn't like to smell oil smoke.
During the Chinese New Year, it is no exception.
Every year for the New Year, the husband is in charge, and the first year is at the in-law's house, and the girlfriend is embarrassed to be idle, afraid that the mother-in-law's family will have opinions.
The husband insisted on not letting her interfere and let her stay in the living room with peace of mind, he said, "I will spoil my wife, and others will not have an opinion." ”
In the minds of many men, cooking is a woman's business, and in some families, during the Chinese New Year, the man should be the shopkeeper and let the woman be busy in the kitchen alone.
And the man who loves you will not let you suffer alone, will take the initiative to cook for you, even if he will not be in charge alone, he will give you a hand, help you, and will not sit idly by.
One reader and I cried that "she and her husband had a big fight on Chinese New Year's Eve, and we have been in a cold war for the past few days." ”
Other people's New Year's Eve is festive and lively, but theirs is like an ice cellar, without a trace of joyful atmosphere.
The Chinese New Year is a day of reunion and the beginning of the new year, with extraordinary implications.
Most families will seize this day of reunion and have a happy New Year together.
During the New Year, even if there are some contradictions, they will be turned into small things, and I don't want to affect the atmosphere of the New Year because of a little friction.
Although it is said that there are many New Year's events, in the final analysis, they are all trivial things, which are not enough to worry about.
As long as you understand each other, take care of each other, and give in to each other, it's not a big deal.
The man who loves you will not worry about you during the New Year, but will let you have a happy New Year.
Chinese New Year, test feelings, test people's hearts.
During the Chinese New Year, men who treat you badly, don't expect to be nice to you on weekdays.
Whether a man loves you or not, you can see it after the New Year.
If during the Chinese New Year, men don't let you and don't understand you, don't count on it, only sadness.