The Dragon's Quest for the New Year
Today is the second day of the Lunar New Year, and the New Year is on its way.
Everyone is still wandering in the joyful atmosphere of the New Year, busy visiting relatives and friends, and having a reunion dinner.
Every New Year's fat, after a year of hard work, when it comes to the Spring Festival, everyone will give themselves a complete holiday and immerse themselves in the beautiful atmosphere of the Spring Festival.
Although the Spring Festival is a time to relax, it is best not to do these 3 things, it is not good for you.
There is such a scene in the movie "Later Us", Jianqing and Xiaoxiao went back to their hometown for the New Year, and Jianqing rented a car, in order to show that he was doing well in the field, and to save face for himself.
At the class reunion, a classmate asked about Jianqing's situation in Beijing, but he did not tell the truth, but continued to pretend to be generous.
Who would have thought that everyone knew that he was renting a house in Beijing, but he didn't want to expose it, so he began to talk behind his back.
It's quite realistic.
In fact, there are only a handful of people who really care about you, and most people are watching your jokes.
In the adult world, there are fewer and fewer sincerity, and most people have other goals.
You're doing well, they come close just to be profitable and won't be sincerely happy for you.
If you're having a bad day, there's a good chance they'll laugh at you behind your back.
Don't show off your income, you can't get the blessings of others, you will only think that you are stinky.
Whether it's good or bad, it's your own life, keep a low profile, and there's no need to tell it to others.
Best friend Qianqian's Spring Festival was very lively, frequently participating in various parties, and the itinerary was full.
After three days of party activities, she couldn't bear it anymore and told me, "I'm so tired."
When the body is tired, the heart is even more tired.
Classmates and relatives in her hometown bombarded her in turn, asking her income, asking her about her love situation, and asking her to the bottom of it.
Dinner with former classmates, in fact, most of them have been cut off. Some can't even be named.
A group of strangers who call themselves classmates are really meaningless to go back to the past together and say some polite words.
In fact, after reaching a certain age, you can see more and more clearly the essence of interpersonal communication.
Most of the interactions are about your value, you are useless, and others ignore you.
Those hypocritical relationships, don't bother to maintain, there are not many friends, and it is enough to have a few sincere confidants around.
Don't go to meaningless gatherings, it will only consume you.
Chinese New Year, gift-giving, and New Year's money are a custom and a beautiful meaning.
Giving gifts is a favor and a heart.
New Year's money, the picture is an auspicious blessing, not caring about the amount of money.
Originally, the purpose of visiting relatives was to promote mutual affection and affection.
But I don't know when it seems to have changed, and many people have fallen into comparison and comparison, making the originally beautiful thing lose its original taste.
The gifts your family gave me were too low, my family gave you hundreds of gifts, and your family only gave a few dozen yuan.
Sending pressure New Year's money, 50 yuan is no longer on the table, and if you send dozens of dollars to others, you will be pointed at behind your back.
When affection is compared in this way, there will be a little less warmth and coldness, which will also affect the relationship between the two families.
The Chinese New Year is a celebration for the whole country.
People from all over the country will return to their hometowns for the New Year and gather with their families.
No matter whether you are rich or poor, you can get through every year.
If you want to live happily, don't do all these things and add to your troubles.