Fights between children are a common situation, and as adults, we should treat them rationally and guide them correctly. When children and playmates fight, the first thing we need to do is to quickly intervene, separate them, and make sure it's safe. But that doesn't mean we have to blame or punish right away, because children's actions often hide their emotions and needs.
We should calm down, take a deep breath, and then listen patiently to what each child has to say. Let them feel respected and understood, so that they will be more willing to follow our guidance. After understanding what happened, we need to make it clear that fighting is wrong, but at the same time, we need to show them that everyone has emotional out-of-control moments, and the key is how to deal with it correctly.
Teach children to use words to express their feelings and needs, not with their fists. Let them learn to empathize and understand each other's feelings. Finally, encourage children to apologize and reconcile so that they know the value of friendship and how to solve problems through communication and compromise.
The way adults deal with it has a profound impact on children's development. By rationally dealing with the fights between children, we can not only resolve conflicts, but also teach them how to get along with others and how to manage emotions, which is an important step towards their maturity.