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I'm not a gossip person. However, if you don't take the initiative during the New Year, you will passively hear a lot of emotional stories.
Marriage is the best conversation among parents at the dinner table in rural areas, just like the undercurrent of comparison between relatives and friends.
If the marriage is good, just a good word, one stroke. Happy marriages are similar, and unhappy marriages have all sorts of misfortunes. Some say that it is all kinds of helplessness and "wonderful".
The topic of marriage in rural areas includes: it is difficult to marry a wife.
It's not hard to get a wife. The hard part is the cost of taking a wife. Don't be surprised, in some places the bride price is as inflated as the house price, but you have to pay the market price.
Minimum standard 18The bride price of 80,000 yuan, this standard cannot be lowered, and it should be a joke if it is low. Some daughters' own conditions are good, and the bride price has exceeded 30 as soon as possible80,000.
It is the responsibility of parents to marry their sons. After the age of 25, it is time for a man to be in a hurry. What to do? Empty 6 wallets and borrow from the bank.
The bride price generally has to be negotiated for three or four rounds, and then there are follow-up rules and regulations such as cars, houses, banquets, etc. Anyway, in a small county with an average salary income estimated at 2k, the cost of 1 million marriages is wanted.
There are many men left in the countryside, and the daughter's family is popular, and there is no bad blind date. But any woman who has wandered outside really doesn't like to return to her hometown. A trip back for the New Year's holiday, in this place where the body and soul cannot be placed, it is really not suitable to stay for a long time.
The topic of rural marriage includes: wife running away from the family.
Is everything all right when you marry a daughter-in-law? A cousin of the husband's family, the debt owed by the marriage has not been paid off, and the wife ran away after a year of marriage. The persuasion was ineffective, so he had to find "justice" through the law.
After three years of mediation, he finally lost 80,000 yuan before he divorced. Marrying a wife is risky, and running away is a probabilistic event. Several families have divorced two or three times, all because their wives can't get by. Some ran away and never came back, some gave birth to children, some did not give birth, and the man waited for his wife to come home, not affectionate, but bitter. Because I really can't afford to marry the next one, I can only consume it and give myself a thought.
Rural marriage topics include: 2 women, one son and three children.
The bride price of two daughters is to support the marriage of one son. The daughter's family is really "sold", and the family affection is there, but the role of a tool man is also real.
Anyway, the 20-year-old daughter's family can get married, and she can go out to work after junior high school anyway. Anyway, the water spilled by the daughter who married out will be happy in the future. Creation makes people accept their fate.
But it is not easy to give birth to 2 daughters and a son as you wish.
Unhappy marriages are the most talked about. Since marrying a wife is so difficult, it should be cherished.
Not necessarily. Lao Tzu bought it with money, can't he be scolded? "Some traditional things are virtues, some are vices. The poorer the place, the more down-to-earth the people, who are full of macho thoughts, but they can't carry things externally, but they love to shout internally but wait for others but do their best to be men's majesty.
It is true that you want to run when you are poor, but what makes people want to run even more is the cold heart and the immutability that cannot see hope. The ingredients of love are too thin to withstand a few back and forth snubbing. This long life is either hard or "ruthless" to turn around.
Poverty is the original sin. Because of limited resources, barrenness and dust, filling the inside and outside of life, we can't nourish the same barren and bitter heart, so we will continue to ask for it.