After going through the time of youth and frivolity, going through the time of youth and no regrets, now, when people are middle-aged, look back, how much money is left? In the rest of the days, apart from making money, what else can we pursue?
After work, I went to run Didi, and at 9 o'clock in the evening, I pulled a female passenger, and after getting on the bus, she took the initiative to add my ***
She wanted to use the car for a long time, so she transferred 3,000 yuan to me. The next night, I went to pick her up at the old place. After getting in the car, she offered to use my phone. The next night, I went to the old place to pick up the female passenger as agreed. When she got in the car, she asked me if she could borrow my phone. I hesitated, but handed her the phone anyway.
She took her phone and started working on it. I couldn't help but wonder what the hell she was going to do with my phone.
After a while, she gave me back her phone and said with a smile: "Thank you, I have saved my *** in your phone, so that it will be more convenient to use the car in the future." ”
I picked up my phone and looked at it, and sure enough, I found that her ** number and WeChat were saved in my address book. I smiled and said, "Okay, you can contact me anytime you use the car in the future." ”
Over the next period of time, the female passenger became my regular customer. Every time she used the car, she would contact me in advance, and we communicated more and more.
One night, she suddenly said to me, "I think you're a very nice person, can we be friends?" I was a little surprised, but I happily agreed to her.
Since then, our relationship has gradually changed from driver and passenger to friend. We would chat, eat, watch movies, and share each other's lives together.
Through in-depth communication, I found that we have a lot in common and common hobbies. We all love to travel, we all love to eat, and we all love to do good things.
Over time, our friendship grew into a special emotion. On a sunny weekend, I decided to confess to her. I came downstairs to her house with a bouquet of flowers, and when she saw me, her eyes were full of surprise and emotion.
I plucked up the courage to say to her, "I've liked you for a long time, would you like to be my girlfriend?" She smiled and nodded, and said, "I've always liked you, too." ”
From that moment on, our relationship took to the next level and became each other's partners. We've had a lot of good times together, and we've faced life's challenges together.
I feel incredibly fortunate that my job at Didi not only brings me income, but also allows me to meet such a special woman. Our story continues, and I believe the future will be even better.
This passionate sentence actually has a lot of loopholes, especially in the description of the problem, saying that you didn't save money when you were young, and you start to work hard to earn money in middle age, which is not like what an experienced middle-aged person said.
There are about three kinds of money that middle-aged people make**.
One is that there has always been a stable job, there is a stable income, this income will not change too much, the probability of sudden increase is very small, generally speaking, it can remain unchanged, a slight increase is good.
So this kind of situation is not about making money, it's just about maintaining a stable income.
The second is that there has been no stable job for a long time, and when I start to try to stabilize in middle age, the money I earn in this situation is generally not too high, but it is a little more stable than the previous one.
This kind of situation is actually the real situation of making money in the problem.
Third, due to the accumulation when I was young, I began to use various channels to realize it in middle age, not necessarily to start a business, in short, to realize it, which is more than the previous income growth.
This kind of situation is the ideal version of the question to make money, but the probability is very low, because if you can accumulate ideas and abilities before, you will not be too bad when you are young.
Most middle-aged people who didn't save money when they were young want to make money in middle age, especially big money, which is basically a good wish, and very few are really realized in reality.
Therefore, young people should not have the idea of having fun in time now and making money in middle age, in that case, there is a high probability that it will still be an idea when they are old.
Everything needs to be accumulated, you can't earn money when you're young, you can earn it in middle age? Don't lie to yourself.
One weekend, on the 6th birthday of my buddy's child, I chose a popular camping base in Beijing, which cost tens of thousands of yuan.
Abbreviated as A,Actually, I haven't seen him for a while.,Good friends in high school.,The relationship is very iron.,Later, they were busy with their own things.,Occasionally a string together.。
I have the impression that he is a natural sound, this time he has changed the GLE, he used to talk much, but now he talks eloquently, and has become the center of the conversation, opened a restaurant, and the profit is unknown. Talking about the ideals of middle-aged people, family, children, making money, satisfying their hobbies, whiskey, cigars, and self-driving trips.
I've been running after my little daughter, and I don't hear much, but I can hear the occasional A always saying that you're right, and you understand it.
After a while, there was an activity in the camp, friend B, and A are small, and I have cooperated before, and the relationship is also very good, just the two of us with children, he told me that A is not the restaurant that made money at all, but the grandparents passed away during the epidemic, and his father was the only son, and the two houses A left behind were sold for more than 20 million, and they floated away, and there was a sour taste in the words.
b In fact, he was successful a few years ago, he worked in an advertising company, Dong client would design with high emotional intelligence, and then he worked alone, and Waterloo was also an epidemic, he carried it for two years, and finally closed down, and went to work again, but he was unsuccessful. I lit a cigarette and told B that life is a long road, and there is a chance to turn over at the poker table, drink less today, don't spoil the atmosphere, he nodded.
I'm not an experienced individual, but I have the ability to make a lot of people I don't meet much trust me, so I know a lot of "stories".
Middle-aged people, making money?
If you start a business at the age of 30, run it properly, and catch the opportunity, it is possible to make money, big money in the middle age of 40.
If there is no foreshadowing, no connections, no opportunities, the probability of going down in middle age is greater.
Today, I saw Li Jiaqi's live broadcast to scare the audience, some people said that it was expensive, Li said that the price has not increased for so many years, and your salary has not increased, you have to reflect.
It may not be that the income has not increased, it may be that the expenses have increased, the elderly, children, it may be that there are fewer opportunities to make money, bankruptcy, and unemployment. So there was no insignificant expense before, but I felt distressed and felt expensive. Is it because you don't work hard enough? Not really.
Middle-aged people, learn to reconcile with yourself and this society. If it is difficult to make money, experience more family affection and observe the growth of children. Have a stable job and grit your teeth to do it.
On the way home, my wife asked me, A suddenly has money, and his mental state is different, what do you think?
I said happy for him, whether it's true or not, I hope I can be happy for him. As for the angle of envy, jealousy and hatred, there is no need. If I was younger, maybe I would still be motivated and force me, but at this age, the chicken blood would be spared.