Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoyu!
In the journey of life, self-improvement is an eternal theme.
The people have recommended three stages of self-improvement: reading oneself, transcending oneself, and pleasing oneself. These three stages are interrelated and together form a complete path to personal growth.
01 Read yourself: recognize yourself and find your goal.
Growth is the process of constantly recognizing oneself. Reading oneself is like exploring the unknown deep sea, like climbing a steep mountain, like the first rays of sunlight piercing through the darkness at dawn.
It is an in-depth dialogue with one's own soul, the pride of recognizing one's own strengths, and the courage to face one's shortcomings. Only by knowing how to recognize one's own strengths and weaknesses can one not be arrogant or impatient when achieving results, and have the courage to challenge when encountering setbacks;
Only by recognizing the boundaries of one's own ability can we know the shortcomings and move forward; Only by recognizing one's past gains and losses can we correct our mistakes and make continuous progress.
There is no uniform standard in life, and what suits you is the best. Only by correctly understanding oneself can we find the right goal and grasp the steering wheel of life.
02 Transcend yourself: surpass yourself and broaden your boundaries
Self-improvement is not to compare with others, but to surpass yesterday's self.
To surpass oneself is to not set limits on oneself, and strive to shape a new self and let life shine.
Every attempt is a transcendence of the self; Every breakthrough is a widening of boundaries. Life is like mountaineering, you can see towering trees and green eyes when you climb halfway up the mountain; If you continue to climb the mountain and reach the top of the mountain, you will have a panoramic view of the mountains and the scenery everywhere you look.
Crossing oneself is not only a challenge to oneself, but also a love and pursuit of life. Only by constantly surpassing oneself can we have the opportunity to see new scenery and meet the infinite possibilities of life.
03 Satisfy yourself: accept yourself and shine.
I have heard the saying: "To live is not to please the world, but to know how to please yourself in the world." ”
In life, some people always want to be liked by others, but in the end, they lose themselves. In fact, instead of looking up to others and being lost, it is better to be your own light, illuminate your own path, and be the protagonist of your own story.
Every smile is an acceptance of self; Every look is a cherishing of life. Pleasing oneself is not only a placebo for self-comfort, but also an artistic expression of life attitude.
Accept your imperfections, learn to appreciate your uniqueness, take care of your body and mood, and you will eventually reap a sparkling self and live your life into a unique limited edition.
These three stages are not isolated, but interrelated and mutually reinforcing.
Reading oneself allows us to recognize ourselves and provide direction and motivation for oneself;
The more self allows us to surpass ourselves and achieve the improvement of self-worth;
Pleasing ourselves allows us to accept ourselves and enjoy the beauty of life.
By constantly reading ourselves, surpassing ourselves, and pleasing ourselves, we can continuously improve ourselves and realize the value and meaning of life.