A sociologist once said that every change in the family level is accompanied by the efforts and struggles of multiple generations. I was born in a large family, my father and mother have 7 brothers and sisters, since I was a child, I know that I have cousins, cousins, cousins, cousins who can't be counted on two hands, and I can't remember what they look like when they are far away, but I can often hear the "legendary stories" in this big family from the mouths of my elders.
As I grow older and return to my hometown during the Spring Festival in 2024, I have found that wealth depends on the accumulation of several generations, and the families that can accumulate wealth have the following characteristics:
01.Treat health as a responsibility
There is a kind of happiness that there are no sick people in the house. If the grandparents knew how to maintain health, their parents would not exhaust their family wealth to treat them;
If Mom and Dad knew how to maintain health, we wouldn't worry about our parents' medical treatment;
If we know how to maintain health, we will not burden our children.
Since ancient times, the Chinese have put the "filial piety" culture in the first place, if one person in the family is sick and hospitalized, the year will be very sad, the family will not be happy, there is an invisible burden on the psyche, and the thought will be anxious.
I especially admire my husband's grandparents and my grandparents, who are both in their 80s, and the phrase that often hangs on their lips is: "We eat well, dress warmly, sleep well, don't worry about us!" ”
They are a generation that knows how to maintain health, eat a healthy diet, have a regular schedule, have a good attitude, and know that the best doctor is themselves.
Physical health is the premise and foundation for realizing all the values of life. Maintaining physical and mental health is not only responsible for yourself, but also for your family.
From today onwards, regular work and rest, reasonable diet, more exercise, and less staying up late. Don't let irregular schedules ruin your day's spirits.
Health is a responsibility. Keep love, don't leave debts!
02.Parents are the backbone of their children
It really takes generations of lifting and relay for one person's success.
At the same age, some people are striding forward on the road paved by their parents; Some people also have to clean up the mess at home and carry the weight forward.
Parents are the confidence of their children, and every support is a kind of "lifting".
After my daughter encountered a problem last night, she shouted that I wouldn't get it with my father, and my husband said: "Yuanyuan, there is a father here, father is here!" ”
When I remembered that my husband had just graduated, failed to start a business, and was particularly confused in life, his father sent him a passage to the effect of:
Don't be afraid if you can't earn money now, the difficulties are temporary. After having the three of you, my father will be sincerely afraid because of lack of money, and your grandfather will support me unconditionally behind my back, and I will find a way to let you have no worries about food and clothing, and receive higher education.
Don't be afraid of everything with your father. Dad wants you to calm down and think about the way forward? I still hope that you can serve the public family's rice. ”
Behind the success of work, it is inseparable from the support of family. Their encouragement and support are the driving force for us to move forward bravely, and they are also the most solid backing behind us.
They work quietly to provide us with a good family environment that allows us to work wholeheartedly without any worries.
Mr. Lu Xun once said: "The meaning of the existence of parents is not to give their children a comfortable and prosperous life, but when you think of your parents, your heart will be full of strength and warmth, so that you have the courage and ability to overcome difficulties." ”
03.It takes three generations to make the class leap
Class leapfrogging refers to the process by which a person develops from one social class to another, a higher social class. Class leapfrogging is not only a simple material pursuit and improving social status, but also a kind of all-round life development.
Some people summed it up like three generations to achieve class leaping:
The first generation lived a life of food and clothing, did not worry about food and clothing, and realized the importance of education;
the second generation, who have obtained a higher education, stay in the big city to work, and live a middle-class life;
The third generation has knowledge, education, capital, and courage, and when the opportunity comes, it will eventually realize the leap of class.
Each generation does its own thing, does not make unrealistic expectations, and does not lie flat on itself but hopes for the next generation.
In fact, one of the reasons for our struggle is nothing more than not to drag down the people who gave birth to us when we are young, and not to drag down the people who give birth to us when we are old.
There is nothing to work so hard for the sake of the child, after all, you raise him young, he raises you old, today's cause is tomorrow's fruit.
04.The house of goodness will have more than a celebration
In the Book of Changes, it is said: "The house of goodness must have afterglow; If you don't accumulate goodness, there will be remnants. "A bad family inheritance is like a sprint, each generation does not leave something good, each generation starts all over again, each generation starts from scratch;
A good family inheritance is a relay race, each generation continues to work the basis of the previous generation, whether it is the environment, resources, contacts, thinking, cognition, or a good family style, family thinking, family honor, will make each generation better and better!
There is nothing wrong with always wanting to leave a sum of money, a few houses, etc., for our children, but the most important thing in accumulating wealth is not money. It is also said in the "Four Teachings of Liaofan": "A hundred gold wealth must be a hundred gold figures, and a thousand gold wealth must be a thousand gold figures." ”
As much virtue as there is a person, there is as much wealth as possible, which is a destined blessing.
And when a person ignores the accumulation of virtue and only consumes good fortune without a bottom line, the good fortune is exhausted, and the money cannot be retained.
Those who have no virtue will be unable to avoid calamity, and in the end they will suffer by themselves; Virtuous people can gather wealth and get rich when they are blessed by God.
A person's fate is good or bad, the amount of wealth, and the rise and fall of a family are all determined by their own energy.
When a person gets a lot but his virtue is shallow, he can't keep anything.
It's like some people work hard to make money, but they turn around and get seriously ill and use up all the money. It can be seen that karma is not a blessing from God, but a reward for those who sincerely do good deeds. Make a little progress every day, and persistence will make a big difference.
Light up Like and Watching, and I wish you and me good luck.