The human dilemma
In the journey of life, we often fall into a deep quagmire because of some seemingly trivial things. These small contradictions, like a seemingly inconsequential turmoil, can evolve into irreconcilable major contradictions, and even lead to the breakdown of the marriage. Marriage, originally a harbor where two hearts snuggle up to each other, but they drift apart in trivial matters and become a dilemma in life.
The contradiction of the micro-end
Marriage is endowed with the beautiful meaning of mutual fulfillment, however, the bumps and bumps in life make this beauty fragile. Living in the same room is supposed to share life, but there is often discord because of the small friction of pots and pans. Between husband and wife, small conflicts are inevitable, but the wise choice should be to discuss big things and forgive small things. Mutual tolerance and understanding are the secrets of a happy marriage.
The contradiction of not giving up
However, some couples choose not to give up. In the case of small contradictions that cannot be compromised again and again, they stubbornly insist on their own opinions, and the truth is endless. The idea of a quarrel at the head of the bed and a good idea at the end of the bed seemed to be out of reach in them. This reluctance to give in turns problems that could have been quickly resolved into irreconcilable rifts.
Emotional outreach
The phenomenon of extramarital ** is not uncommon, like a heart-wrenching tragedy. In the absence of warmth at home, some people choose to seek supplements outside the home. Because of the turmoil of family conflicts, successful elites choose to escape from the status quo and look for confidants outside. However, once the relationship**, the bitter consequences will follow.
The Trap of Vain
People with a strong sense of vanity are often more likely to go outside of marriage. Family chores have become an unbearable burden for these people, and the psychology of comparison drives them to leave their original warm family. They pursue external glamour, but they do not know that this pursuit will eventually deprive them of the support of their families, and their marriages will fall apart in the trap of vanity.
The trials of life
Women face a lot of pressure in the family, and trivial matters such as mortgage, education, and medical care make them feel the weight of life. In situations where the partner is not understanding and accommodating, they may seek outside love. This psychological transformation makes it easier for women to empathize and go astray outside of marriage.
Behind the Society
According to incomplete marriage survey data, the rate of extramarital ** in society is as high as 60%, of which nearly 60% are men and 48% are women. Among them, the ** caused by trivial things should not be underestimated. In order to escape trivial family problems, people often seek a pure land of the soul outside, but rarely realize that such a choice can ultimately lead to greater harm.
Epilogue Life is full of ups and downs and twists and turns, and marriage is even more so. However, it is the tolerance and understanding embodied in the small things that are the cornerstones of a long-term happiness in a marriage. When we see the various states in the world, perhaps we should stop and examine our marriage, and think about whether we can find more beauty in the trivial things. Let love be the fulcrum of life, not let the contradiction evolve into an irreparable rift. In this labyrinth of human nature, perhaps we can find an exit to happiness.
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