Nowadays, in order to strive for better educational resources for their children, parents can be said to spare no effort. Especially for parents in first-tier cities, the competition is fierce. As a top high school, Tsinghua University High School has staggering admission requirements. According to the admission conditions of Tsinghua University High School**, money is no longer the key, the comprehensive quality of students must be strong, and the test scores and subject competition results must be outstanding. In order to give their children the opportunity to enter such a school, parents should not only prepare school district houses for their children, but also let their children participate in various public welfare activities and competitions to enrich their resumes. As a result, the daily lives of parents and children have become stressful.
In the face of such fierce competition, some parents can't help but sigh: Is this still a middle school? Is it still in line with the educational purpose of secondary schools that it is so competitive that it exceeds the admission requirements of many universities? However, for parents living in first-tier cities, such competition is unavoidable. Parents and students around them are working hard, and if their children don't put in the same effort, they are likely to be left behind. Still, this competition has also brought a lot of problems, and parents are starting to worry about their children's mental health and academic pressure.
As an important education town in Beijing, Haidian District has gathered the top educational resources in the country. However, the students here are under tremendous pressure to study, especially the parents in Beijing's Haidian District, which is known as the best in the country"Chicken baby"of a group. In order for their children to stand out from the competition, they not only require their children to excel and achieve good results in cultural classes, but also cultivate their comprehensive ability. Earlier, a primary school student from Beijing's Haidian district complained that he was ranked low in his class because his classmates had already learned math at the high school level. However, this primary school student himself has already obtained a first-class programmer certificate from the Institute of Computer Science of the Chinese Academy of Sciences when he was just in elementary school, which is really unbelievable.
Although the students in Haidian District excelled in their studies, this high emphasis on grades also caused them serious psychological problems. According to reports, more than 2,000 primary school students in Beijing's Haidian district have been suspended from school, and the main reason for these students is psychological problems caused by excessive study pressure. For such a situation, it is understandable that under the high-intensity study pressure, even some adults feel unbearable, let alone some elementary school students?
In the field of education, competition is inevitable, and parents often fall into a state of desperate struggle in order to strive for better development opportunities for their children. However, we can't ignore our children's mental health issues either. Learning is important, but physical and mental health is also important.
Therefore, in order to solve this problem, we need to work together from many aspects: family, school and society. Parents can correctly guide their children's learning attitude, encourage them to compete moderately, and also pay attention to their children's physical and mental health, so that they can relax and maintain a positive mood. In terms of schools, we should pay attention to cultivating students' comprehensive ability, not only academic performance, but also their social ability, practical ability, etc., so as to cultivate their all-round development.
Finally, we need to recognize that competition is not a problem per se, but a problem of how and to what extent it is competent. Moderate competition can drive student progress, but excessive competition can cause great stress and negative effects on children. Therefore, we should advocate moderate competition, pay attention to the all-round development and physical and mental health of students, and let them grow up in a healthy and happy environment.