I am 39 years old, and I have become a veritable leftover girl .

I am 39 years old, and I have become a veritable "leftover girl".

I am in a well-known company in the south, with an annual salary of 360,000 yuan, a deposit of about 1 million, and a house in a fourth-tier city of 80 square meters.

I am 30 to 35 years old, and I have been committed to being admitted to the system, and the positions I applied for are all good cities, good positions, and very competitive.

After 5 years and nearly 20 years of preparation examinations, I finally failed to enter the system. I'm too high-minded!

After the age of 35, I was destined to lose my time in the system and focus on making money.

When I came back to my senses and looked for a partner, I had already become an older leftover girl.

In the past few days, I have participated in two blind dates in succession.

A man is 36 years old, works in a company, travels frequently, and has a monthly income of only 7,000 yuan.

Another person is 38 years old, working in the system, having an establishment, getting married for the second time, and having a 6-year-old son.

They all fell in love with me and wanted to continue their relationship with me.

My thoughts are turbulent. Am I this "worth"? High-quality men are ** gone?

Am I being too picky?

In my heart, I have always wanted to find someone who is mature and stable, considerate, successful in his career, financially independent, and has a good income.

I was lost in thought. Do I really have to choose one over the other? My heart told me I didn't want to compromise. However, the reality made me feel helpless.

I knew I couldn't go on like this. I found that I was always striving for "perfection" and neglected my real needs.

I no longer demand perfection from the other person, but focus more on the inner qualities and character traits of the other person.

I know that there is no such thing as "perfection" in life, only mutual tolerance and support.