Recently, I have seen a lot of news about young cadres on the Internet, all of whom are chosen children, who work for two years to become deputy mayors, and then step up every two years, and go to the deputy county level in their 30s, and some can even reach the county levelAs a cadre in the system, if you look back at yourself, you are all 40 years old, still a deputy section level, and it took 20 years to go around in circles at the starting point of others.
I graduated from an ordinary second school at the age of 22, majored in journalism, and returned to the county TV station as a reporter after graduationThe biggest achievement is to follow the four secretaries of the county party committee, but because of personality, until each secretary leaves, I don't know what my name is!
In 2016, I encountered an exam for the deputy mayor of the township, and I took the test with the attitude of giving it a try, but I didn't expect to be admitted, and I was almost brushed off in the middle, because when the list was finalized, some leaders proposed that the Standing Committee members vote to decide, which is basically equivalent to a death sentence for those of us who don't know the Standing Committee.
But fortunately, the secretary of the county party committee at that time was a person who understood, saying that this method was unfair, and it was determined by the score of the exam, so I changed from a public institution to the deputy mayor of a township, and became a deputy section-level cadre, and also realized the grand slam from temporary worker to civil servant, and spent 8 years to do all the identities in the system.
From a professional and technical department to the deputy mayor of the township, this change of identity, I have to take a long time to adapt, I used to think that I can do anything, but really come to the deputy mayor of this step, you know that you don't know anything, you think that everyone is better than you, say that they are better than you, so that you have great doubts about yourself.
However, with a Xi attitude, I quickly adapted to it, first of all, the change of thinking mode, I always felt that one thing, either right or wrong, but after the township, you found that the right is not necessarily right, and the wrong is not necessarily wrong, which depends on the angle and identity of the problem, there are often many things, and you need to constantly change the angle and identity.
Due to personality reasons, work steadfastly, I have experienced two townships, a department, each work unit, the main leaders feel that you can, have painted cakes for you, always say a few words to the heart, so that you feel great motivation to work, any difficulties and grievances are nothing!You'll feel like there's always something to look forward to!
However, the development of things will always disappoint you, no matter how nice the previous words are, when there is a substantial opportunity, there is always no part of you, once it is like this, you will still have expectations, and when it comes to two, three, or four times, you will not take it seriously.
After experiencing a lot, I slowly learned that the problem was my own reason, and it didn't have much to do with other leadersI always feel that doing a good job is the greatest achievement, but in fact, in such a society, there is never a shortage of people who can do things and do good things, ability can only allow you to get the basic conditions of doing things, and emotional intelligence is the key to whether you can go further.
When you figure it out, it's relieved, because you can't do it anyway, to put it nicely, you can only do things, and now that you're 40 years old, you don't have any ideas, and at the starting point of many people, we see that it is indeed an end, which is a fact that you have to accept.