There is no overnight feud between husband and wife, and there is a quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. This phrase is perhaps more apt to describe a common pattern in couples' relationships. After getting along for a long time, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps, but the final destination is often mutual understanding, tolerance and reconciliation.
Take, for example, a story I recently saw on Weibo. A netizen shared his experience: his girlfriend decided to break up with her boyfriend in a fit of anger because she had no one to help her because she encountered difficulties in the game. The boyfriend tried to apologize and explain, but the girlfriend didn't want to listen. As a result, the boyfriend found an opportunity in the game and apologized to his girlfriend with the help of in-game props, and the girlfriend was moved to forgive the boyfriend, and the two reconciled again.
This story has aroused the resonance and heated discussions of many netizens. Some people think it's too naïve, while others think it's an ingenious way of expressing love.
Different people have different attitudes towards emotional issues, but in any case, love and tolerance are the basis for understanding and communication.
In the world of relationships, every couple has a unique way of getting along. Some people prefer to express themselves directly and honestly, while others prefer to keep a certain distance and calm. And true tacit understanding does not come from words, but from the connection of hearts.
From time to time, when we look back on our own emotional experiences, we may find that the quarrels that were once not understood have later become mutual enhancements and fits. Love, sometimes needs to go through the baptism of wind and rain to be stronger.
Therefore, for love and friendship, we should face it with a tolerant mindset and learn to understand and perceive it from different perspectives.
Every relationship has its own story and reason, and only by accepting and understanding it calmly can we have better relationships and life experiences. Let us walk through every stage of life together with warmth and understanding.