Write on the back
I have always liked the drama "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", it is not only about house fighting, but also about parents and children, personal growth, self-redemption and other topics.
At the bottom of the previous comic, a reader mentioned a plot of the heroine Sheng Minglan.
When she was a child, her mother was an unfavored concubine in the family, and she was framed when she gave birth - deliberately did not let the doctor and Wen Po go to deliver the baby, detained them, and left her mother to fend for herself.
Minglan has also felt guilty for more than 20 years.
When she became an adult, when her friend encountered the exact same situation as her mother during childbirth, she rushed straight at the wicked people with a big belly and a sword, pulled out the midwife, and said to them:
"I've seen this trick since I was a kid, but I'm not a kid anymore. ”
At that moment, she not only protected her friends, but also liberated herself from her childhood.
No matter how many times I rewatch it, I will be deeply shocked by this sentence.
And this sentence is exactly what this cartoon wants to convey to you today.
When we are deeply trapped in the predicament of parenting, and the trauma of childhood is activated over and over again in adulthood, we need to remind ourselves repeatedly:
I've seen this trick since I was a kid. At that time, I didn't have enough strength, so I would develop some not-so-healthy strategies to protect myself, but at this moment, I have grown up, and I am not the same as I was when I was a child.
In this way, we can truly live our lives.
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