The son of the founding general studied abroadYear.
General Xu Guangda was a modest model among the founding generals. With his actions, he told the children that it is not important whether the position is high or low, but the important thing is to be a hard-working person who is beneficial to society.
When his son compared his father's position with other children, General Xu Guangda modestly said that he was just an orderly. His low-key and modest humility has earned him respect and affection.
Xu Guangda thought that he was not high, and resolutely demoted his rank. At the first award ceremony in New China, Xu Guangda was personally awarded the rank of founding general. However, Xu Guangda insisted that this military rank was too high and did not match his contribution, so he wrote three times and twice in the hope of being demoted.
His humility and rigor earned him the respect of all, but his outspokenness surprised people. When there was an accident in his operation and he ordered to track down the doctor, Xu Guangda still maintained a light and fluttering attitude, showing his unique charm.
Xu Guangda was always very strict about his position, and his son was also influenced by him, Xu Guangda gave his son three orders, requiring him to always remain modest and cautious.
Xu Guangda is one of the top ten marshals, but he always keeps a low profile and does not easily show off his position. Once, he came home from work and saw his son playing with the other children and heard them comparing their dad's position.
Although Xu Guangda felt helpless, he still adhered to his principles and did not want the children to pursue false fame excessively. He told the children that a position does not represent a person's worth, what really matters is the inner qualities and abilities.
Although Xu Guangda was a marshal, his salary was the lowest among the ten marshals. This is not because he is unwilling to get more money, but because he believes that as a soldier, the most important thing is to contribute to the country and the people, not to pursue personal fame and fortune.
Therefore, Xu Guangda has always adhered to his beliefs and not been shaken by the outside world.
Xu Guangda and his wife were talking about a certain topic with their children, and Xu Guangda felt that the comparison was not good, so he decided to interrupt the children's conversation. When his son saw him, he asked curiously, "Dad, are you a big official?" ”
Xu Guangda turned his mind and replied: "It's not big, Dad's official is just a servant of the people." Hearing this, his son also had to dispel the idea of comparison.
Xu Guangda realized the importance of this matter, and believed that children's character began to form between the ages of three and seven, and it would be a bad phenomenon to compare. So he decided to correct the children's thinking.
Xu Guangda attaches great importance to his son's education, he not only requires his son to live in the school and live a group life, strictly controls pocket money, but also allows his son to go to and from school independently. He stressed that the phenomenon of children's comparison should not be ignored, but should be followed by the children of workers and peasants.
In addition, Xu Guangda also resolutely opposed his son using his position to show off, otherwise the family would never come back. His approach to education was rigorous and rigorous, which deeply reflected his charisma and noble qualities.
Xu Yanbin looked at his father's serious face, he knew that this was a serious topic, so he attached great importance to it. Even when he became an adult, he never violated any of the rules set by his father.
Xu Guangda resolutely refused to let his children study abroad for one reason. Xu Yanbin is a sensible child who listens to his father very much. When he was in school, he never talked much about his family's situation, and even when he filled out the form, he only filled in his mother, not his father's.
In 1959, Xu Yanbin graduated from high school with excellent grades, and the school decided to recommend him to study abroad because of his excellent performance and academic performance.
When reviewing Xu Yanbin's file, the school was surprised to find that his father had never appeared in any records, leaving only his mother's name. Considering that it is not easy to study abroad, the university decided to select suitable and excellent students to study abroad.
However, if Xu Yanbin really has a political history problem, he will not be able to participate. As a result, the school began to investigate Xu Yanbin's file, and the results of this investigation surprised the school, and it turned out that Xu Yanbin's father turned out to be General Xu Guangda, one of the founding generals.
Therefore, the school decided to visit General Xu Guangda in person, first, to inform him of Xu Yanbin's decision to study abroad, and second, to solicit his opinion.
General Xu Guangda is very satisfied with the child's growth, he sees the child's excellence, and is proud of the child's efforts. He wants his children to contribute to society, but he is adamantly opposed to children studying abroad.
The school was puzzled by this, they believed that they recommended Xu Yanbin to study abroad because of his excellence, which had nothing to do with General Xu Guangda, and there was no background problem.
However, Xu Guangda firmly opposed this decision. His reasons are clear. He thinks that although his child is excellent, after all, he is the child of a high-ranking cadre.
If he goes abroad with this status, he will definitely receive a certain level of care, which will not do any good for the child's development. Therefore, he insisted on recommending outstanding children of workers and peasants to study abroad.
After hearing his father's decision, Xu Yanbin expressed his complete agreement. The father and son decided to give up this opportunity to go abroad and leave this place for the children of workers and peasants who needed it more.
Xu Yanbin, although he did not go abroad, became a domestic scientific and technological talent with his own efforts and realized his wish to contribute to the country. In 1963, Xu Guangda was admitted to the General Hospital of the People's Liberation Army in Beijing due to the loss of vision in his eyes due to work fatigue, and then swelling and could not be opened.
After examination by a doctor, the diagnosis of meipadenitis was confirmed, and immediate surgery was required. The hospital decided to have Zhang Fuxing, a first-class professor of ophthalmology, perform the operation.
Although Dr. Cheung Fook Sing had excellent professional skills, he was not in the same physical condition as when he was younger, so he accidentally hit Xu Guangda's cornea during the operation, causing his condition to worsen.
After learning that there was an accident during the operation, ** immediately issued three instructions: one is to hold the doctor responsible, the other is to transfer Xu Guangda to Beijing Hospital for **, and the third is to ask the doctor to write a report on the accident.
Zhang Fuxing was very scared when he learned about this, he never thought that he would make such a mistake, so he was very worried that he would be held accountable.
After Xu Guangda woke up, his team immediately reported to him the decision to deal with Dr. Zhang Fuxing. Hearing the news, Xu Guangda immediately put forward three requirements to **: first, don't transfer the doctor to the hospital; Secondly, it is still conducted by Professor Zhang Fuxing**; Finally, don't hold accountable.
His wife fully supported his decision, and in order to reassure Dr. Zhang Fuxing, she personally found Dr. Zhang Fuxing under Xu Guangda's arrangement and invited him to her home to help him reduce his mental burden.
Dr. Zhang Fuxing was touched by General Xu Guangda's trust, and then operated on Xu Guangda again through superb skills, and the operation was very successful.
Xu Guangda's eyes recovered quickly after a timely **, and in the face of the ** investigation and everyone's concern, he calmly expressed his gratitude, and pointed out rationally: "For a small problem of an ordinary patient's surgery, will you also make such a fuss?"
It's completely unnecessary to make the city stormy. He also said that we should understand doctors, mistakes are inevitable, and it is good to correct them in time, so that there is no need to bury the career of doctors.
Xu Guangda's broad-mindedness saved the fate of a good doctor. After that, Xu Guangda ordered himself to recuperate, and then devoted his energy to the study of armored forces again.
In the 60s, Xu Guangda, as the commander of the armored corps, faced a headache for him. Due to the poverty in the countryside, the rural relatives of many cadres of the Armored Forces Command came from all directions, which led to an influx of personnel from Beijing.
These long-term residents put a lot of pressure on the armored troops, as they not only disrupted the office order, but also caused the troops to show signs of disintegration. In this regard, Xu Guangda presided over the meeting, and the party committee and higher-level organizations of the armored corps formulated a decision, that is, the cadres of the armored corps must mobilize their relatives not to defect to Beijing.
Even if someone comes, they can only stay for 3 days and then return to their place of origin. This decision was aimed at maintaining order and discipline in the armored corps and avoiding the disintegration of the army.
Unexpectedly, new challenges were placed in front of Xu Guangda. His fourth and sixth brothers had just come to Beijing from their hometown to join him, thinking that he was now a general and should live a luxurious life.
However, they found that Xu Guangda's life was actually not easy. Despite this, Xu Guangda received his brothers warmly, but they couldn't help but be disappointed when they saw that there were only fried cabbage and boiled soybeans on the table.
They thought that Xu Guangda deliberately embarrassed them, and after eating with a gloomy face, they went back to their room to rest. Xu Guangda then continued to work, while his wife, Zou Jinghua, told his brothers about the latest decision, as he had arranged.
The fourth brother and the sixth brother waited at home for a day, and another day, and they didn't wait for Zou Jinghua to come back. It wasn't until the evening of the third day that the fourth brother received Zou Jinghua's **, telling him that the tickets had been bought, and that they should pack up and leave tomorrow.
The fourth brother was a little impatient and asked, "Why didn't you tell us earlier?" We have been waiting for you. Zou Jinghua explained: "This is the decision of the party committee, and I can only implement it in accordance with the regulations." ”
When the fourth brother heard this, he was a little dissatisfied, but he didn't refute it again. The next day, the fourth and sixth brothers prepared their bags according to Zou Jinghua's instructions, and then set foot on the road back to their hometown.
On the way, the fourth brother and the sixth brother both sighed that without Zou Jinghua's help, they might not be able to return to their hometown smoothly. Although the fourth and sixth brothers were a little dissatisfied with Zou Jinghua's approach, they also knew that this was for the sake of the overall situation and the interests of the party.
Therefore, they also choose to understand and accept. From this incident, the fourth brother and the sixth brother also realized that we should not only look at the interests of individuals, but also consider the interests of the entire team and the party.
Only in this way can we better accomplish our tasks and contribute our strength to the party's cause.
When the fourth and sixth brothers heard Zou Jinghua's decision, they immediately stood up angrily, unable to accept this decision that they considered to be driving them away. Although Xu Guangda said that he would respect the decision of the party committee, the fourth and sixth brothers still decided to leave Beijing.
The next morning, Xu Guangda deliberately asked for leave to accompany them around Beijing. However, when they were about to leave, the fourth brother found a large amount of grain transported from the yard, which made the fourth brother feel very angry.
He thought that since there was so much food, why couldn't they stay in Beijing? Xu Guangda explained that the grain was to be sent to the disaster area, not for everyone to stay and eat.
Xu Guangda's fourth brother tossed and turned because of his younger brother's affairs, he didn't understand, his younger brother was the commander, why did it become difficult for him to stay and eat? He decides to talk to his brother, but overhears a conversation between his brother and sister.
Xu Guangda explained to his wife that when he was a child, everything in the family was handled by the fourth brother, his clothes and shoes were made by the fourth sister-in-law, and the brother and sister-in-law treated him very well, and because of his experience as a soldier, the fourth brother did not complain.
The doubts and emotions in the fourth brother's heart expressed his deep love for his younger brother.
After saying this, Xu Guangda choked up. The fourth brother finally understood that the younger brother was not targeting him, nor was he unwilling to eat at home because he hated the poor and loved the rich. But because of the provisions of the first class, as a leader, you must take the lead in implementation.
So, the fourth brother pushed the door and walked in, and Xu Guangda and his wife were also shocked. The fourth brother walked over and patted his younger brother on the shoulder, indicating that he and the sixth brother would leave tomorrow.
Xu Guangda understood that this was another consideration from his brother, and tears slipped down again. The next morning, Xu Guangda took out all the best things in his house, made a table of dishes, and gave some cigarettes and wine to the fourth and sixth brothers to taste.
He really didn't have anything better to give his brother than that.
1.Xu Guangda and *** knew about their brother's generosity, and they had accepted various gifts from their brother over the years, so they accepted their brother's kindness. After the meal, Xu Guangda and his wife sent the fourth and sixth brothers to the train station, and waited until the train started before they left.
As the saying goes, loyalty and filial piety are difficult to achieve. Maybe for everyone, the choice is different, and the fate will be different, but General Xu Guangda still does his best to try to achieve both.
Although this is helpless, it is not regrettable. Salute to General Xu Guangda! 2.Xu Guangda and *** knew about their brother's selfless dedication, and they had accepted his brother's gift for many years, so they gladly accepted his brother's kindness.
After the meal, Xu Guangda and his wife sent the fourth and sixth brothers to the train station, and waited until the train started before they left. The ancients said that loyalty and filial piety are difficult to achieve. For everyone, the choice is different, and the situation will be different, but General Xu Guangda still does his best to try to achieve the best of both worlds.
Although it is helpless, it is not regretted. Salute to General Xu Guangda!