An article in "People**" said: "The best love is not perfect, but when it comes, it does not leave." The most beautiful love words are not that I love you, but that I will never leave you. "Means you'll never love me. "Go away. I would love to accompany you to old age. ”
This sentence speaks to the core of the long-term relationship between men and women, and also makes us think about what kind of love can be long-lasting and beautiful. ？
Mutual support: Feelings grow over time.
The older we get, the more we understand that encounters in the vast sea of people depend on fate. It takes the sincere efforts of both parties to live in harmony and happiness in the years to come. This kind of dedication is the spirit of helping each other.
Take An Jie and Jiang Defu in the classic TV series parent-child love as an example. The two are very different from their origins to their personalities. However, it was precisely because they treated each other sincerely that they broke up. A great story about loving each other, overcoming ups and downs together, and achieving success.
When Jiang Defu learned that An Ji's sister's family was in trouble, he did not hesitate to lend a hand, and gave up his originally bright future to be with his beloved An Ji. After Angel identified Jiang Defu, she changed from a rich daughter to a housewife who washed her hands frequently, made soup, raised her husband, raised children, and supported each other in all aspects of life. This kind of true love that you are willing to give to each other can stand the test of time and be beautiful for a long time.
Let's cherish each other: cherish the people in front of us and stay away from the feeling of not being valued.
On the road of life, we will meet all kinds of people, but not everyone is worthy of our cherishment. We don't have to go and grab those who don't value us, but we should learn to let go and find those who really deserve our attention.
The story of Zhang Youyi and Xu Zhimo is a good example. The two were supposed to be both talented and beautiful, but Xu Zhimo's ruthlessness eventually led to the separation of the two. During the relationship, Zhang Youyi has always cherished her relationship with Xu Zhimo, and even in the face of Xu Zhimo's indifference and cruelty, he still has hope.
However, when she realized that no matter how much money she paid, she couldn't get Xu Zhimo's love, she chose to let go. With this decision, she finally became a winner in life, and it also made us understand the truth that the longest relationship is inseparable from the communication of hearts. Only by knowing how to care for those who truly deserve care can we find happiness and fulfillment.
Hand in hand: a firm choice in the face of challenges and realities.
In real life, we will inevitably encounter various difficulties and challenges. A truly lasting love relationship requires both partners to work together and support each other in the face of these challenges.
There was a news report about a loving couple. My wife lost both legs in a car accident and my husband stayed with her every day and packed her in his backpack so he could see the outside world. The wife sympathizes with her husband's hardships and teaches herself massage techniques to relieve her husband's fatigue. They choose to take each other's responsibilities, support and cherish each other, and go hand in hand in the face of difficulties. This down-to-earth choice makes their love deeper and more beautiful, and it also makes us understand what a truly ordinary and beautiful relationship should look like.
There aren't many people in this world who are really kind to us. Therefore, we must learn to cherish those who are loyal to us and not abandon them easily. At the same time, we must also learn to reject those who do not value us and prevent them from hurting our feelings. Only when you know how to cherish and give integrity, can you build a lasting and beautiful love relationship.
In short, the true meaning of long-term love revealed in "The People" - mutual support, mutual respect, and hand in hand, is what each of us should pursue and practice. Only by truly understanding and practicing these truths can we go further, more down-to-earth, and happier on the road of love.
So, are you also pursuing such love? Are you and your partner living these principles? Let's work together to create a better future full of love and happiness!