[Family strife: The dilemma of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law under money].
Hello everyone, I am Wang Shuqin, a 51-year-old Henan woman who has just ushered in retirement. Tonight I would like to share a story about money and family strife, perhaps the bits and pieces of this story can provoke you to think about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Retirement gave me a sense of ease and ease that I thought I could spend my old age with my wife. However, there were some twists and turns in my family as I retired. My daughter-in-law, a woman named Gao Lijuan, came to my door out of the blue and talked to me about my pension. Her arrival instantly complicated my otherwise cheerful mood.
The daughter-in-law asked about my pension and even tried to understand my financial situation, which made me think about the complexity of the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She used the example of a relative of mine as if she could lend money to her brother to buy a car. It made me feel uncomfortable, but it also made me realize the subtle connection between money and family strife.
In the process, my son appeared nervous and tried to cover up the truth with some excuses. He told me that his daughter-in-law was actually worried that I would be forced to ask for a high pension because her brother was in dire need of a car. This made me think, how important is money to a family? Will it really affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
I had some disagreements with my son on this issue. He wanted me to hide the truth so as not to get into trouble, and I believed that honesty was the foundation of family relationships. Money is important, but it needs to be based on honesty and trust.
This experience made me reflect more on the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The entanglement of money may be the superficial reason, but behind it is the lack of communication and understanding between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should have a relationship of mutual respect, understanding and support, rather than falling into conflict for money.
Perhaps, each of us faces a similar problem in the family. Money is important, but what is more important is how we balance family relationships, how we understand each other's needs, and how we find a balance between money and affection.
In the middle of the night, I shared my story and hoped that every family would thrive on understanding and trust. Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, let us face it with a more tolerant attitude and use more sincere communication to resolve the disputes caused by money. May every family be able to usher in true happiness, regardless of wealth, and build a strong bond of love and understanding.
Late Night Voice] Let's work together to ** family, money, those real and delicate relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, may you have a peaceful and warm night. We look forward to your sharing and messages, so let's exchange our hearts together in the middle of the night.