"Talking about Wealth" says this: "You must not have the intention to harm others, you must have the intention to protect others. ”
If you want to have a good life, you have to be willing to protect others. A person who is defenseless against others will fall into the abyss if he is not careful.
We can be friendly, but we can't be very talkative if our habits are always changing because of someone else's behavior. Over time, the other person will start to think that it is normal to go against your principles.
In life, there will always be people who will do things that harm your interests for various reasons.
In the face of these people, if necessary, we must learn to "break face". If people care too much about their appearance, they will only suffer in the end.
Once a person is weak, it is easy to be bullied by others. If you want to get out of trouble, you need to strengthen yourself.
Learning to give up is the first step to becoming yourself.
In interpersonal interactions, everyone has the right to refuse.
Swallowing anger doesn't buy a bright future. For the sake of harmony and peace, appropriate concessions can be made, but they cannot be blindly accepted without a final conclusion.
People who try too much to please others in their relationships end up paying a high price.
Being kind to others is a virtue, but to promote virtue, we also need to be kind to others. There are always people in life who don't deserve to be forgiven over and over again.
Kindness is a choice, not an inevitability. We can choose kindness or indifference.
No one says you have to help others. If the person you're helping is worth it, then you have a responsibility to help. If you feel that the other person is worthless, you have a responsibility not to help.
When a person reaches a certain age, he must learn to open his heart without worrying about offending others. The following four types of people are helpless.
Everyone will meet someone in their life who deliberately embarrasses themselves.
When we first encounter this situation, we are often in a hurry and don't know how to deal with it.
Some people become nervous as soon as they encounter a similar situation.
As they age, some people choose to remain silent and endure in the face of difficulties. Some people are too resistant.
Those who choose to be silent and tolerant are likely to continue to be seen as weak, while those who resist excessively may fall into the trap of being exploited by people with ulterior motives.
If someone is deliberately making your life difficult, don't just take it at face value or overreact.
The best course of action is to analyze the cause and effect, then calm down and decide how to fight back.
Showing your shortcomings in public is like slapping someone in the face.
A person's shortcomings are often his own wounds, and not exposing the wounds of others is the most basic conclusion of being a man.
No matter how good your relationship is, you shouldn't discuss unnecessary things. Whether in public or in private, it can be embarrassing.
Everyone has self-esteem. Especially if you don't want to embarrass yourself in front of everyone.
As the saying goes, "hitting someone doesn't slap someone, scolding someone doesn't expose people's shortcomings", and interpersonal communication is how two people relate. You need to control each other's emotions. The bottom line of getting along.
Exposing one's shortcomings in public can bring an unforgettable shame. Words are more powerful than fists.
If you encounter someone in your life who exposes their shortcomings in public, you don't need to listen to how they apologize later. In some cases, a mild "I'm sorry" doesn't help at all.
There are two very unkind words in interpersonal communication. They are "burning donkeys" and "burning bridges".
No matter what stage of life you're in, there's no way to avoid encountering bad people. However, some of the bad guys have a dignified face from the start, while others are well disguised.
In the initial relationship, the bridge builders were always warm and friendly. They want to take advantage of you, so they will try to please you.
Don't trust others unnecessarily. There is no such thing as a concern for no reason. If your partner treats you better than usual in a relationship, you should be careful.
Compensation without value cannot be applied to any relationship. Be careful with friendships for no reason in life. The other person may simply be looking for a scapegoat.
It's okay to be fooled once by the person who built the bridge. No matter how kind you are, don't end up in the same place again and again.
In this world, there are always some people who hate others. This "other" is more likely to be someone around them.
Jealousy can make a person ugly. It is even more unfortunate that such "ugly" people abound around us, often colleagues, friends, relatives.
Deep down, people are selfish, and when life isn't going well, they unconsciously compare themselves to others.
People who don't understand your kindness will never understand your efforts. In their eyes, everything you have achieved is a blessing of fate.
So I attack you and complain about the absurdity of fate.
As the saying goes, the poor hate it.
No matter how kind you are, don't sympathize with the jealous "poor".
When faced with someone who hates you, the wisest option is to turn around.