Wen Xiamo. The road of life is full of ups and downs and unknowns, but also hidden opportunities and good luck.
If you want to live a smoother life and gain more goodwill and trust, you must learn to pave the way for yourself.
For example, use reliable character to accumulate good popularity for yourself and establish your own network.
Only by managing your life with your heart can you become a real winner in life.
People who live more and more smoothly have one characteristic, two words: generous.
In life, everyone will encounter difficulties at times.
Getting along with others, when others encounter difficulties, generously reaching out to help others and solving their urgent needs is the beginning of friendly exchanges.
My colleague once met someone downstairs in the company who had met several times.
The other party said that his mobile phone and wallet were forgotten in the taxi, and he borrowed a few hundred yuan.
My colleague lent him it without saying a word, and when the others heard about it, they all called him stupid and believed such a clumsy excuse.
And he didn't care at all, he felt that if he could really solve the difficulties encountered by that person, it would be worth losing a few hundred dollars.
Soon the man found him again and returned the money. I also brought in a business and specified that it should be handed over to a colleague to do.
Through this business, colleagues have also won the appreciation of leaders and have better development in their careers.
People who live more and more smoothly are generous, provide help to those around them, and never care about returns.
When getting along with others, always maintain a kind heart and know how to consider others. Use the greatest kindness to warm each other's hearts.
Be kind to others, and you will make the road under your feet smoother and smoother.
The kindness and friendliness he has put in will be rewarded handsomely in the future, making life full of hope.
Most of the cooperation between people is based on "interests".
People who live more and more smoothly will not only focus on immediate interests when cooperating with others, or use a cooperation to consume each other's trust.
He will be generous in making profits, let others see his sincerity and character, and win the sincere trust of others.
Kazuo Inamori said, "Treating others with altruism can make people feel a sense of accomplishment and happiness, and in the end, the benefits are their own." ”In his heart, when he cooperates with others, the other party is not only a partner, but also a comrade-in-arms in the business field, and an alliance with one interest.
What he considers is more about the interests of the other party, and he doesn't want the other party's contribution to get the desired return.
Even if he loses some of his benefits, he hopes to make the other party recognize his strength and resources, and looks forward to more cooperation in the future.
People who are generous can build strong connections for themselves.
In a period of cooperation, the more people who know how to make profits, the easier it is to achieve a win-win situation with others, and win the hearts of the people. In this way, you will be able to get closer to success and realize your dreams.
In "Children of the Qiao Family", Qiao Yicheng is the eldest in the family and has taken on the responsibility of taking care of his younger siblings since he was a child.
When the Qiao family's old house was smashed, he took his younger brothers and sisters to his rented house, and he was busy following up on the aftermath.
When Sanli was short of money, Qiao Yicheng took out the savings he had saved from his work.
When Simei got married, he prepared a decent dowry for her.
When his younger brothers and sisters all got married, he still cared about them in his heart and solved all kinds of problems for them, which was simply heartbreaking.
He gave everything for his younger siblings, and his younger siblings also regarded him as the most important person in their lives, and cherished their affection for each other.
The affection between relatives can bring warmth and strength to oneself, give encouragement when you are disappointed, and share joy when you are successful.
People who live more and more smoothly attach great importance to the relationship between them and their relatives, and never skimp on their own contributions.
People who are generous to their relatives can feel the warmth brought by family affection, and no matter how long they have been adrift in the world, they will always feel at ease.
And the companionship and support between his relatives will also become the biggest motivation for him on the road of life, so that he can fight bravely and never give up.
"Generous" is a kind of wisdom to manage feelings.
If you want to get along with others and gain the favor and trust of others, you must first know how to express your generosity and kindness.
When you open your heart and treat others generously, you will definitely be able to reap the feedback and dedication of others.
Be generous, don't overly care about gains and losses, and not only focus on the immediate interests, and the future road will be smoother and smoother.
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