The New Year check-in is off to a good start
In all fairness, it is indeed not easy to live at home, and "every family has a scripture that is difficult to read", oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, eating, drinking, lazing and sleeping, especially the fireworks in the world of pots and pans, it is even more annoying. So, some people ask: what kind of experience will a "lazy and lazy" daughter-in-law be on the "stall"? It's really hard to say.
For various reasons, I often hear a group of mothers-in-law say that whose daughter-in-law is the daughter-in-law of whom, how delicious and lazy to do. Perhaps, it was the mother-in-law who spoke, her daughter-in-law, who was the most "delicious" and the most "lazy". In fact, on this issue, you really have to think about it and take it seriously. You think, you say that your daughter-in-law is lazy to eat, so how is your son doing? Their generation of young people, pampered when they are young, are basically the kind of "food to open their mouths, clothes to stretch their hands", naturally the vast majority of people are eating and wanting to eat well, wear and wear warmth, do want to do less, or even do nothing, as long as they sit back and enjoy their success.
Then I went to school, along the way, after graduating from university, and even studied for a master's degree or doctoral degree, after joining the work, most of them were quite stressed, so except for a very few, there are really not too many people who can cook, wash clothes, do housework, etc., as for those who can see things diligently and like to do housework, it is even rarer. As for eating, now that the living conditions have improved, every family does have good things to eat, plus a variety of takeaways with various flavors, it is impossible to eat good ones. So, to sum up, in the minds of the older generation, most of today's young people should be "lazy and lazy", except for being unwilling to admit and deliberately vain and boasting.
Back to the topic, if you really happen to have a lazy daughter-in-law on the "stall", what kind of experience will you have? Generally speaking, one is angry, and the other is complaining. Thinking about it, it may be a normal thing for people to be angry, because most of the older generation are diligent, hard-working, and good at thrift and thrift, so they are very unaccustomed to their daughters-in-law's lazy food. However, even if you are angry, there is no good way, most of them can only swallow their anger, helpless, just angry. Because as long as it is the daughter-in-law that his son likes, no matter how lazy she is, she can only accept and approve it. Therefore, sometimes they can only complain about their sons, why should they find such a lazy daughter-in-law.
In fact, life and life are like this, the reality that cannot be changed, the best way is to change yourself. As the older generation, we must adjust our mentality, and try our best to understand the difficulties of young people now, and treat this matter with a peaceful psychological state, maybe you won't be so resentful, and maybe you can still see your daughter-in-law's laziness. The current daughters-in-law, not to mention the improvement of women's status, there are more men and fewer women, or what is the "yin and yang", which is the status quo of real life, and most of them are the same. That is, most of today's young people are used to eating delicious food, and some of them eat, but they don't want to or don't know how to do housework, which is also a common phenomenon and a habit. If you are a white-collar woman, the pressure of work and children will be very high, and you are unlikely to have time to do tedious household chores.
It can be seen that anger and complaining are one thing, and understanding and tolerance are another. As an older generation, if you can understand and tolerate your daughter-in-law who is "lazy and lazy", as long as everyone can get along in harmony, and the daughter-in-law can be good to her husband and children, and the relationship with her in-laws is normal, and she can take care of the overall situation and make more money, it should not matter if she is lazy and lazy. Moreover, as some parents-in-law said, people just spend their time in more valuable places and leave housework to more suitable people to do. This can't be called lazy, it can only be said that the division of labor is different, "each performs its own duties". Therefore, since the older generation is willing to work hard for their children and grandchildren, they must not only get used to the "lazy work" of their daughters-in-law, but also get used to it. What do you think? (The picture is from the Internet, please do not sit in the right number, and the infringement contact will be deleted.) ）
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