Love is always like a sudden summer rain, unable to **, irresistible. When it quietly comes, even if you are facing a complex life situation, you can't help but want to devote yourself to it. However, when this affection points to a woman who already has a family, this affection is like a butterfly imprisoned in a glass bottle, beautiful and helpless. In this case, how to deal with one's own emotions and how to let each other find an outlet in this emotion that is not tolerated by the world has become a difficult problem.
In a quiet town, Jerry and Amy's story quietly begins. Jerry is a charismatic young talent, while Amy is a beautiful woman with a happy family. Their encounter was like an arrangement of fate, which caused ripples in the two originally calm hearts.
1. Keep an appropriate distance and respect her choice.
When he realizes that he is in love with Amy, Jerry does not impulsively disturb her life, but chooses to pay attention silently. He knew that Amy had her own family and responsibilities, and he didn't want her to be bothered by her presence. Therefore, he deliberately kept a certain distance and just waited silently from a distance.
Jerry never confesses his heart to Amy, but he will be the first to show up when Amy needs help. When Amy faced a family crisis, he gave selfless assistance and advice. At the same time, in order to respect Amy's choice, he always maintained a kind of friend-like care.
2. Be clear about your bottom line and don't cross the boundaries of morality.
When faced with love, people tend to become blind and impulsive. However, Jerry knows that no matter how much he loves Amy, he can't cross the moral bottom line to destroy her family. Therefore, he always kept a clear head and did not allow himself to act in a way that would hurt Amy and her family.
When Amy is once mired in affection, Jerry does not take advantage of it, but encourages her to return to the responsibilities of the family. He used reason and kindness to help Amy through that confused time, and also won Amy's deep respect and gratitude for himself.
3. Find your own happiness and let love be the driving force.
Love is not the whole of life, and when in love with a family woman, a man should understand this even more. Jerry knows that there can be no future between him and Amy, so he turns this love into motivation to pursue his own happiness.
Jerry began to focus on his life and career, and he worked hard to improve himself and become a better person. In the process, he met another woman who understood and loved him, and finally entered the palace of marriage. He didn't forget Amy, but he also found happiness of his own.
If you fall in love with a family woman, remember to do these three things: keep an appropriate distance and respect her choices;Be clear about your bottom line and don't cross the boundaries of morality;Find your own happiness and let love be the driving force. This may be a helpless way to deal with it, but it is the best choice for each other. Because the essence of love is not possession, but respect and fulfillment. As Shakespeare said, "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but only looks down on all living beings and everything in the world." "In the world of love, we need more reason and kindness to fulfill those unfulfilled emotions, so that love can become a force to push us to pursue a better future.