Identify thisClass girls, avoid excessive contact.
Recently, there has been an opinion circulating on the Internet that there are more men than women, and it will become more difficult to find a partner. Some men even choose to marry a random girl, believing that they don't have much choice.
However, I would like to say to these men: You were also pampered by your parents, so why can't you have the right to choose? Even if you are going to get married, please do not choose the following three types of women.
Some girls have a bad relationship with the same sex, do you know why? Maybe it's because they often say, "Girls are too serious, too calculating, I can't play with them." ”
Guys may find such girls unique and funny, but if you think about it, is it really appropriate for them to denigrate their female friends like this? Most of these girls who have a bad relationship with women just want to enjoy the good that others treat them, and they don't want to give, so they can't have the friendship of female friends.
On the contrary, such girls are easily welcomed among boys, because they can take advantage of their gender and openly ask boys for help in the name of good brothers, without paying any price.
Here, I would like to remind everyone that if you want to pursue such girls, then you must also accept the circumstances behind them, including their small circle and many good male girlfriends.
Girls are a vulnerable group, but now in a society governed by the rule of law, both men and women are equal. This kind of answer is really speechless. There are also girls who will use "I'm a girl, be reserved" as an excuse to tell you that they want you to give more.
Therefore, brothers must learn to distinguish. While it's true that men give more than women in a relationship, that doesn't mean you can be morally kidnapped by anyone.
A normal relationship should be a joint effort by both parties, not a one-sided burden. For example, if you invite a girl to dinner, she will also invite you to a movie in return.
And those who just want to enjoy will either see you as a cash cow or use you as a spare tire. Therefore, students, you must learn to protect yourself and not be affected by anyone's moral kidnapping.
The third type of girl: Why does she always bring her girlfriends when she is dating? Some people may say that maybe they have a good relationship and nothing is wrong. But have you ever wondered who wants to bring a big 750-watt light bulb on a date with someone they like?
If she does this, either you are not attractive enough, and the girl does not want to date you alone, so she may be in the way of saving face, and she agrees to your invitation, and will try to reject you later.
If that's the case, then you're going to have to improve yourself, and there's still a chance. Either this girl has no opinions and needs her best friend to check for her. Therefore, this kind of girl, whether you can succeed or not depends on her best friend.
If your best friend thinks you can't do it, she will be with you, or one day your best friend thinks you can't do it, and your relationship will end. In the end, you seem to be in a relationship with three people, and you have to please her best friend all the time.
What's the point? There is also a kind of pure girlfriend who eats with her girlfriends, who doesn't care about you, is interested in the guests you invite and the money you spend, and treats you as her "small purse".
Boys also have to learn to protect themselves outside.