The Spring Festival, a traditional Chinese festival, means the warmth of home and the reunion of family affection for many people. But there are also some voices that seem less harmonious in the hustle and bustle of festivities. Yesterday, a fan confided in me his troubles on WeChat: "Going back to my hometown during the Spring Festival and going to reunite with relatives doesn't feel interesting at all. I don't even think I can decide whether to go home or not, do I have to be coerced by others in my life? ”
This question may seem a bit pretentious at first glance, but when you think about it, it is quite profound. Why are the older generation keen to visit relatives during the Spring Festival, even if their children are reluctant? Why is it that in today's increasingly rich material, the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, but people still have to adhere to this tradition?
To solve this mystery, we have to look to history for the answer. In the lower society, material resources are relatively scarce, and interpersonal relationships are complicated. The family, as a basic social unit, is particularly important for its unity and harmony. Therefore, the older generation shows the unity and strength of the family to the outside world by visiting relatives during the Spring Festival, so as to ensure the survival and reproduction of the family in the bottom society.
This traditional custom, passed down from generation to generation, has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. But at the same time, as the times change, so do the perceptions of young people. They yearn for freedom, pursue personal values, and do not want to be limited by the constraints of tradition. This conflict of values makes the traditional custom of visiting relatives during the Spring Festival a little embarrassing in modern society.
So, in the face of such a dilemma, how should we choose? Is it true that our lives are going to be coerced by others?
The answer is clearly no. Everyone has the right to choose the way they want to live and not be swayed by others. But we must also admit that in this land, if you want to do what you like, you often need to have enough strength to support it. It's like visiting relatives during the Spring Festival, if you have enough strength and confidence, you can choose not to go, but if not, then you may need to pay some compromises.
Of course, this does not mean that we should completely give up on our pursuits and dreams. Instead, we should work harder to improve ourselves and make ourselves a worthy person. In this way, we can truly take control of our own lives and not be swayed by others.
In this process, we need to have a little spirit, a little spirit of self-improvement. As Mingyue said back then: "In a person's life, there are at least one or two things that should be uncompromising, at least one or two; People need a little spirit, at least a little. "We must have the courage to pursue our dreams and have the courage to face the difficulties and challenges in life.
Finally, I would like to say that although the traditional custom of visiting relatives during the Spring Festival seems a bit out of place in modern society, the family concept and family value it contains are still worth cherishing. While respecting tradition, we should also dare to innovate, so that this custom can radiate new vitality and vitality in the context of the new era.
Therefore, in the face of the traditional custom of visiting relatives during the Spring Festival, we don't have to be too entangled and resistant. Instead, we should face it with a more open and inclusive mindset and let it play a more positive and positive role in our lives. At the same time, we must also firmly pursue our dreams and goals to make our lives more exciting and meaningful.