In the process of blind date, there is often a huge gap between expectations and reality. When a 35-year-old woman with still charm meets a 28-year-old young man, the expectations of both parties are very different from reality. The female guest, Miss Wang, made it clear that she was more inclined to older mature men, while the guy wanted to find a girl who was a bird. Two different views of love collided in this blind date, but in the end they failed to reach a consensus. Through this blind date experience, I can't help but think: when looking for the other half, what kind of ideals are we pursuing, and can we accept each other's shortcomings, tolerate each other, and grow together?
The female guest, Miss Wang, is 35 years old, is a nutritionist, and her appearance is still charming, she is hereBlind date showis very good, confident and determined. Ms. Wang told the matchmaker that she prefers older men, believing that they have more experience and can take better care of her. This kind of inner little girl-like desire to be cared for makes people feel pity.
At work, Ms. Wong is highly regarded by her colleagues and friends. Not only is she good-looking, but she also has the status of a national swimming coach, showing her multi-faceted talent. Colleagues describe her as "soft and beautiful, but daring to challenge everything", and this contradictory personality makes Miss Wang even more charming.
In addition to the external conditions, Miss Wang's requirements for mate selection are also very clear. She hopes to find an uncle-type man who is more mature in age and mind than herself, and who can lead her to a better future. This yearning for uncle-type men shows Miss Wang's ideals and pursuit of love.
The 28-year-old guy showed his honest side in the blind date. Despite his youth, he takes his relationship very seriously and expresses his desire to find a girl who is a bird. This yearning for gentle and considerate women makes people feel the tenderness and expectation in his heart.
However, the guy has a deviation in understanding the requirements of female guests for uncle-type men. His preferences seem to be somewhat contradictory, one moment he says he likes younger girls, and the other he has a crush on aunt-type women. This hesitant attitude may have also affected his communication and understanding with the female guests.
When the female guest made it clear that she was pursuing an uncle-type man, the guy seemed a little lost and even a little embarrassed. His preferences are not exactly in line with the expectations of the female guests, and this gap between reality and ideals puts him in a difficult situation.
Contrary to the guy, the 39-year-old Brother Ning showed a mature and steady side. As a hotel owner, he has rich life experience and career experience, and knows how to manage feelings and relationshipsMarriage。This attitude towards emotional responsibility makes people feel his inner maturity and stability.
Brother Ning is also very clear about his mate selection requirements, he hopes to find a bosom mate who is not only a bird, but also a bosom partner who can go up to the hall and down to the kitchen. This requirement of tolerance and care shows the all-round understanding and companionship he hopes to find in his other half.
However, in the communication with the female guests, Brother Ning also exposed his concerns about the difference in concepts. He questioned the female guest's motivation for pursuing an uncle-like man, believing that the other party may care more about the other party's material conditions and economic foundation than about their true inner feelings. This realistic way of thinking may also indirectly affect his emotional communication with female guests.
In the process of blind date, everyone has their own specific hopes and expectations, but the reality is often changeable. When looking for the other half, in addition to the matching of external conditions, it is more important to match the heart and the same concept. Only on the basis of sincere communication and mutual understanding can you find the other half who is truly suitable for you. Blind date is not only to fill a person's vacancy, but also to find that soulmate in the soul and spend a lifetime with each other.