If you don't touch it three times when you go out, you have a lot of trouble, so you want to ask those three things?
A woman's waist, a man's head, and a kind of human baggage.
The statements in this article are based on reliable sources and are repeated at the end of this article.
Some people don't understand what it means, but after encountering it in life, or after hitting a wall, they will deeply understand the meaning of these words.
Why can't a girl's waist be touched, what are the consequences of touching it, and why can't a boy's head be touched? And what is the rest of the people's luggage?
A woman's waist, a murderous knife
For thousands of years, how many people have been defeated by women's beauty, these people are either immersed in the gentle township, or they have fallen for the beauty scheme.
And all beauties have a significant characteristic, that is, the waist is slender, in ancient times, social etiquette and customs were very serious oppression of women.
Especially in the later period, in the Qing Dynasty or Ming Dynasty, the repression of women in these places was more serious, and even the behavior of binding small feet was produced.
It is not difficult to see how serious the oppression is, but the waist of girls is rarely mentioned in our impression, is it because the waist occupies a relatively small position in the culture, or is it too obscure to be mentioned?
Take a closer look, there are many kinds of clothing in Chinese history, and compared with foreign ancient historical clothing, it is not difficult to find that Chinese clothing is generally conservative, in the ancient Western Regions, there are often portraits left by orchids in crop tops, and clothing that has been handed down by ethnic minorities in the south to show women's slender waists.
In cultural works, the description of women's waists is indeed the most in China, and the pursuit of Chinese for slender waists can actually be traced back to King Chu Ling during the Warring States period.
There is such a sentence in "Warring States Policy", "The king of Chu has a thin waist, and he starves to death in the palace" is about this allusion.
Now the so-called A4 waist and touching the navel with the backhand are actually leftovers from the ancients, and there are even many poems that have been handed down at that time.
Among them, the more famous will be the Tang Dynasty poet Du Mu's quatrain "Repatriation", which is down-and-out and full of wine, with a slender waist and light palms.
The waist of the Chu Palace in the latter sentence is about the above allusion, and the palm in the back is the Han Dynasty Empress Zhao Feiyan.
The pursuit of a thin waist is not only seen in China, but has also been documented in Europe for a long time.
One of the most impressive episodes in Pirates of the Caribbean is that the European aristocracy at that time had to wear a very difficult corset to show off their slender waists, and they had to cooperate with two people to wear it.
This kind of figure is called the Spanish slender body, and at the same time, this crazy custom also brought great inconvenience to the nobles at that time, so there are often people who are overwhelmed by this kind of clothing, and finally cause their organs to displace, and even difficulty breathing.
In Pirates of the Caribbean, Elizabeth lost her breath and fell into the sea because of this corset.
This aesthetic habit is not only in Pirates of the Caribbean, as long as it is in movies about medieval aristocracy, we can see similar aesthetics.
For example, the plot of the female protagonist wearing a corset in "Gone with the Wind" and the clothes of the heroine in "Gone with the Wind".
This is much more dangerous than China's foot-binding, after all, foot-binding will not die, but girdling does kill people.
At present, the thinnest woman in the world has a waist circumference of only 40 after wearing tights6 cm, in the state of not wearing tights, it is only 64 cm, such a slender waist, the price people pay is that they can't walk for the rest of their lives.
It can be seen how important a girl's waist is to a girl, and in China, in fact, the most important thing is that a girl's waist has a special significance.
The language information sent by human beings is the most abundant in silent language, and it is rich in connotation, and there is a ritual of bending down to greet each other in Japan.
And there is also a lot of use of the waist in literary works.
For example, in "Water Margin", Sun Erniang crossed her hands on her hips, tilted her head and asked Song Jiang: "Big boss, did you miss a line, you have to make money to open a store and do business." The waist language here is to express anger or strength, and it is often seen in film and television works that the plot of scolding people with a crossed waist can be seen.
And the use of the language of the waist is not only these, for example, in film and television works, we can also see the picture of a woman twisting her waist, even in real society, we can also see many girls twisting their waists in **.
This generally represents the meaning of sexuality in body language, so this will be very powerful in the subconscious of many men.
This is one of the reasons why many people are interested in girls' waists.
As we all know, the physiological structure of girls is different from that of boys, and such a physiological structure makes it inevitable that they will have some disadvantages when they are born.
For example, most of women's organs are concentrated in the middle of the body, such as the uterus, and women's fertility is the most precious, so they will naturally choose to protect here.
In the later cultural evolution, women's waists were not added to the name of chastity, only their husbands could touch them, and if they touched a girl's waist on the street, they were likely to be regarded as hooligans or frivolous people.
Naturally, such a place can only be touched by those closest to him, which already existed before the development of etiquette, after all, who would let others touch their vulnerable places?
Why can't a man's head be touched?
Why can't a boy's head be touched? In fact, in the final analysis, this is related to the physiological structure at the beginning, and then it slowly becomes related to culture.
In primitive societies, men were usually tasked with hunting, tracking, and defending against foreign enemies, all of which had a common feature of the need for force.
And it is the brain that controls the body, if you injure the arms and thighs, you will not lose all your combat ability, and after hitting the brain, the whole person will be completely passive.
That's why in many natural disasters or emergencies, all calls are to give priority to protecting the brain, after all, only when the brain can still move, can we ensure the safety of our lives.
For men, such a thing is slowly engraved in the genes, which is very obvious, if only one ethnic group chooses to protect the brain, it can also be said that the culture is different, but in many ethnic groups there is such a culture, that is, the gene determines this custom.
For example, the Jewish hat, known as "kipa" in Hebrew, can be traced back to the Middle Ages, and in the beginning, some devout believers generally wore this small round hat called "Bordos" on their heads in order to show their respect and devotion to God.
Later, it gradually became the traditional clothing of the Jews, and the meaning of "kipa" Judaism is that there is heaven on the head, there is a god in the sky, and the human head is sacred and cannot be covered by hair, so it is necessary to wear a hat to express piety to God.
A similar culture exists in the Yi people.
In Yi culture, the heavenly bodhisattva generally refers to a man's hairstyle, which is a lock of hair at the top of a man's head that cannot be touched.
In the Yi culture, if someone accidentally touches another person's Bodhisattva, they may need to apologize or even pay compensation, and if the person who touches them is of low status, they will be punished with capital punishment or a broken arm.
For women, the consequences of touching a male Bodhisattva are even more serious, and in the culture of the Yi people, a man who is touched by a woman will be unlucky for the rest of his life.
If it was in the past, women with low status would be sentenced to death, and with the progress of the times, women only need to apologize after touching the male heavenly bodhisattva, as well as killing chickens to buy wine, in addition, the male heavenly bodhisattva must be cut off, otherwise it will affect the male **, or the future life.
In addition, there are many ethnic groups that do not allow others to touch their heads, such as Mongolians, who believe that the hands of the born are not clean, and touching the child's head will be harmful to the healthy development of the child, so it is forbidden for strangers to touch the child's head.
For example, the Tujia people also recorded in the "Xiangxi Cultural Dictionary" that "the head of a man, the waist of a daughter, only look at it, not scratch" touching a man's head is a violation of the dignity of a man's sweat, no matter how good a friend is, this taboo must be strictly observed, otherwise friendship will turn into hatred.
There are also similar customs in Tibetan culture, which are not allowed to touch their heads, of course, there are some differences in Tibetan culture, that is, Tibetan elders, and local living Buddhas can touch their heads.
In addition, there are also Wa taboos for others to touch their heads, touch their ears, taboo to give ornaments to young girls, as well as cigarettes and so on.
What else can't be touched?
There is also a kind of people's luggage that cannot be touched, this is actually a smooth mouth, the ancients often said that the four do not touch, the carpenter's axe, the woman's waist, the single's luggage, the cook's knife.
If the carpenter's axe and the cook's knife are easy to understand, they and the woman's waist are the same level, that is, they live and eat by themselves, then why can't the luggage of a single person be touched?
Indeed, the luggage of a single person is the most incomprehensible here, and in order to understand, it needs to be carefully considered.
Singles have always been a difficult group of people, they generally have no parents, no children, no brothers and sisters, no worries, so no one can mess with singles, because singles will really fight with people.
And the singles also have no one to worry about, so they don't have their own home, and they only need to carry their luggage if they want to go, so for the singles, the luggage is their own home.
At the same time, the bachelor also doesn't have his own wife, so he likes to collect some strange things, similar to women's things, if someone finds out, it's a very embarrassing thing, so the bachelor generally won't let others touch his luggage.
**Ten Thousand Fans Incentive Plan If it is a man, after finding out, the single is likely to be desperate, and if it is a woman, the single will even ask her to marry him, and because of the danger of the single, many people are reluctant to provoke the single.
That's why the luggage of a single person can't be touched.
As the saying goes, "Women are afraid of touching, men are afraid of touching the top", what happens when you touch it? After reading the knowledge