Indifference to family affection Behind the increasingly scarce relatives contact
My relatives back home are getting farther and farther away from me."
In today's villages, there is very little communication between relatives, and the root cause is because of the gap between the poor and the rich. In the past, in the villages, relatives were very close to each other, and there were many contacts and easy exchanges. Boat and mountain trails are a primitive and practical way to get around, and there is a smooth flow of information from village to village. The cured meat, a bottle of wine, and a bag of sugar from my uncle's house were all given to them during the New Year's holidays. Family and neighborhood affection are blended together, and it has become a habit to convey information in the field. During the Spring Festival, the crowded city wharf has become a place for relatives and friends to greet each other, transmit information, and buy and sell agricultural products. But now, with the passage of time, everything has changed.
1. "The connection between relatives is severed. ”
In the past, the villagers communicated with each other and supported each other, forming a big family. In the process of urbanization, a large number of migrant workers have moved to the cities to work, making kinship in the countryside more and more alienated. Red envelopes and ** replaced meeting and greeting, and those nostalgic customs in the mountains slowly disappeared. The prosperity of the city has made the countryside depressed, the opportunity for people to meet has been replaced by mobile phones and text messages, the relationship between relatives has gradually faded, and the warmth of family has faded with the passage of time.
2. "The family gathers less and leaves more." ”
Nowadays, many famous village New Year's gifts have been forgotten, and there is less and less kinship contact with each other in the past. Countrymen do not have much education, and their words and actions tend to attract criticism and accusations, while city people have an exaggerated demeanor and do not talk casually about other people's family affairs. From the affectionate at the beginning, to the current indifference, the contacts between relatives are becoming more and more scarce, and money and materials have gradually bound their feelings.
3. "The gap between the rich and the poor has widened, and family relations have weakened".
Changes in life often lurk unspeakable shadows. In the countryside, snobbery has witnessed changes in the world around them, and the gap between rich and poor has gradually widened. Some people get rich overnight, while others struggle day by day. The gap between the rich and the poor has aroused suspicion among relatives, with the rich reluctant to be seen as their property and the poor fearing that others will lend money to them. Such conflicts have made their relationship more and more estranged, and it has also made their relationship more and more estranged.
4. "The distance between neighbors is getting farther and farther apart. ”
As young people go out to work and older people stay in the village, there are fewer opportunities for family reunions. With the rapid development of urban life, people are less and less connected to each other, and less and less connected to each other. The stories of the countryside seem to be getting farther and farther away from us, the visits of relatives are becoming more and more perfunctory, and the trivial things and haste in life make family affection dull.
5. "Money is a curse, feelings are a curse." ”
Under the interweaving of money, the family seems to be ruthlessly torn apart. The gap between the rich and the poor is gradually widening, and the relatives who once loved each other have become complacent. The older generation is becoming more and more unable to resist the coldness of young people, and as time passes, they are left with nostalgia and regret. The flame of the family, in the cruel life, has lost the enthusiasm of the past.
6, "The memories of the family, but when I wake up, it is blank. 》
Looking back, the home of those years is mixed with light and darkness, and it seems that it is still in front of me. The bustling countryside shines brightly in the memories. However, the cruel reality has worn out the corner of warmth, and the interaction between relatives is becoming less and less. Did you think that the relationship between relatives would become so indifferent, and behind the silence, there are countless thoughts and long melancholy. Perhaps, it is only through memory that we can once again experience that feeling of blood connection, warmth and sincerity.
7. Summary. In the village now, there is really little contact with relatives, and family affection seems to have become weaker. Expanding wealth and changing times have alienated the once-close-knit family relationship. The feelings of home in the past seem to have drifted away with the wind. Perhaps, in a busy life, we should stop more, pay more attention to the people around us, cherish every opportunity to meet, and let this fetters of family affection continue in this rolling red dust. Because family is the most tender bond in life, and it is the coordinate that will never disappear on our way forward.