The second day of the Lunar New Year is the "legal day" for sons-in-law to pay New Year's greetings in traditional Chinese culture. Today there will be people in the village who have "suspicious deeds", don't worry, it is the son-in-law who accompanies the daughter-in-law back to her parents' home, and this custom has a long history and has been passed down to this day. According to traditional customs, on the second day of the Lunar New Year, daughters should return to their parents' homes with their husbands and children to pay New Year's greetings. This custom is known as "Son-in-law Day" or "Aunt's Day", which means that the son-in-law should pay New Year's greetings to his parents-in-law as a sign of respect and filial piety.
On this day, the married daughter returns to her parents' home with her husband and children to reunite with her family. For the son-in-law, it was a challenging day. Many young sons-in-law feel embarrassed and nervous on this day because they have to face scrutiny and greetings from their parents-in-law and many relatives. Some of the new sons-in-law even feel at a loss because they are not familiar with their mothers' families. In order to alleviate the embarrassment, some sons-in-law choose to hang around the gate, waiting for meal time, hoping to go home early.
However, while some sons-in-law may feel embarrassed, the custom of "returning to their parents' home" is a very important part of traditional Chinese culture. This custom not only gives married daughters the opportunity to reunite with their families, but also gives sons-in-law the opportunity to show respect and filial piety to their parents-in-law. In terms of gifts, although the gift is not expensive, the affection it contains is very deep. Daughters and sons-in-law will bring rich gifts, such as sweets, biscuits, etc., to greet their parents-in-law and express their thoughts and gratitude.
In addition, the custom of "returning to their parents' home" also gives married sisters the opportunity to get together to reminisce about old feelings and share the bits and pieces of life. Such gatherings are very beneficial in promoting family and camaraderie. In an atmosphere of reunion between young and old, the family spends a happy and peaceful time together.
Netizens are hotly discussed: Women have to help with their mother-in-law's house, and men go to their father-in-law's house to walk around with their hands in their pockets, why are they so blind
Empathy: Many men go to their mother-in-law's house, even if they are entertained with delicious food and drink, they don't have to do anything, they can't stay even for a day, and they will feel bored and have no intention of going back to their home after staying for a long time.
But his wife has to stay in your house for the rest of her life, and if she can't stay, she has to get used to it, even if she is wronged, she has to stay. I want to ask you why you can't stay at your mother's house, but I must stay at your house, I can't get used to eating and living, why do I insist.
Hahahahaha, it's so real, I saw that my brother-in-law was like this in February** dynamic incentive plan