Introduction: Family, the recent hit "In the Name of Family" has attracted much attention. The beginning of this drama makes us think that it is a warm family drama, which makes people envy Li Jianjian for having such good brothers. However, the development of the plot is a big surprise. In the later plots, the screenwriter turned the original fresh and refined family drama into a bloody love drama. Especially the shaping of Ling Xiao makes people feel very strange. Why does he think that he can love Li Jianjian, but he doesn't allow Ziqiu to love her? Isn't that a double standard? Although Li Jianjian chose Ling Xiao in the end, is such a choice really appropriate?
Today, we will not talk about Ling Xiao and Ziqiu, but focus on the three girls in the play: Li Jianjian, Tang Can and Qi Mingyue. After revisiting "In the Name of Family", it is not difficult for us to find out why Li Jianjian finally stayed away from Qi Mingyue. First of all, let's take a look at why Li Jianjian left Qi Mingyue. The two used to be very good friends, and Tang Can joined later. However, the reason why Li Jianjian chose to leave Qi Mingyue was mainly because Qi Mingyue was unscrupulous in order to pursue his male god, and at the same time, he was a little confused.
Qi Mingyue has always had a crush on Ling Xiao, but this relationship has never been reciprocated. Over time, she turned this crush into an open love. Although Ling Xiao's image in the play has collapsed, he doesn't know that Qi Mingyue likes him. In his mind, Qi Mingyue has always liked Ziqiu. Therefore, Ling Xiao just regarded Qi Mingyue as Li Jianjian's best friend and friend. However, in Qi Mingyue's opinion, the interaction between her and Ling Xiao may mean that he has a special place in her heart. It is precisely because of this secret love that Qi Mingyue responds to Ling Xiao's requests.
As Li Jianjian's best friend, Qi Mingyue should have respected her opinion. However, when Ling Xiao asked to obtain Li Jianjian's **, Qi Mingyue sent ** to Ling Xiao without her consent. This makes people feel that she does not regard Li Jianjian as a real friend, at least in some ways, and does not respect her feelings very much.
In the process of Ling Xiao's return to China to pursue Li Jianjian, Qi Mingyue seemed to realize his emotional problems. She began to try to get close to Li Jianjian, hoping to repair the relationship between the two. However, at this time, Li Jianjian was already suspicious of Qi Mingyue, and the relationship between the two gradually drifted apart.
Tang Can is a relatively independent girl in the play, and her friendship with Li Jianjian and Qi Mingyue is not very deep. Although she has tried to fit into this circle of friends, she has never really integrated into it due to reasons such as personality and interests. This also caused her to remain on the margins of this small group, unable to establish a deep friendship with Li Jianjian and Qi Mingyue.
To sum up, the three girls in "In the Name of Family" have experienced different emotional twists and turns and growth processes in the play. Li Jianjian drifted away because of Qi Mingyue's disrespect and betrayal, and Tang Can was never able to integrate into this small group because of his personality and interests. And Qi Mingyue lost two good friends because of her emotional problems and unclear personality. Perhaps it is for these reasons that the three girls did not form a deep friendship in the end in the play. In this situation, Ling Xiao gently kissed Li Jianjian, which happened to be seen by Qi Mingyue. If you were Qi Mingyue, I'm afraid you would be angry. But what was confusing was that Qi Mingyue poured her anger on Li Jianjian. If I were Qi Mingyue, I would definitely go to Ling Xiao to ask for clarification, instead of looking for Li Jianjian to get angry. Maybe that's why Li Jianjian later chose to alienate Qi Mingyue.
Let's talk about Tang Can, she is devoted to Zhuang Bei, but Zhuang Bei loves Qi Mingyue. But Tang Can didn't get angry because of this, but really hoped that they could be together. Although Tang Can was so generous, she also understood that she no longer had anything to do with the two of them, so she chose to say goodbye to the past and decided not to see them again. Fate often plays tricks on people, Zhuang Bei finally fell in love with Tang Can, but unfortunately Tang Can only has friendship with Zhuang Bei.
I would like to conclude by saying that time changes everything, even small things that start out as small things can change over time.