Dear friends in the workplace, I am a career explorer who grows with you in the workplace, thank you for your attention!
Hello friends in the workplace! Who is the person who really wants you well in a huge workplace environment? Next, join me in uncovering the hidden truths in the unit. Then start directly from the perspective of our direct leaders, colleagues and competitors.
Direct Leadership: When you achieve something in the workplace, you may perceive a slightly reserved response from your leader. This is because they may fear that your success will pose a challenge to their position, so even praise may be mixed with subtle criticism to ensure that their authority is not shaken.
At one point, I came up with a new project idea that I wanted to improve the efficiency and results of my team. However, my boss expressed concern about my decision-making rights in criticism, believing that I should have consulted more with my team. This incident taught me that leaders can be skeptical of new ideas because of their desire to control team dynamics.
Colleagues who get along day and night:
Between colleagues, there is always competition. When your accomplishments surpass theirs, their jealousy will follow. They will laugh at your mistakes and talk about your plight, because it has become a fire in their hearts and burns their pride. The environment determines people, so let's go up and change to a good environment.
I remember a female colleague who obtained a professional qualification certificate, and thought she could get the blessings of her colleagues, but she was unexpectedly ridiculed. It turned out that her progress touched the sensitive nerves of her colleagues.
Of course, this is very common. Sometimes, an individual's achievements or uniqueness can provoke jealousy or uneasiness in others, especially in a competitive environment. But like that female colleague, it's important to keep faith in your goals, not to be distracted by the outside world, and to move on.
Competitors within the division:
In a competitive workplace, your opponents are the ones who don't want you to succeed. They will try to discourage your confidence and persuade you to pass up the opportunity because your success means their failure. But remember not to let yourself fall into their trap and not let the villain take advantage of it.
One experience made me realize the malicious planning of competitors, who once missed the opportunity to submit an important project because of their influence, and only later revealed their plot behind it, but in the end they succeeded. This lesson taught me the sinister intentions of my opponents.
In this field of interest, there are still people who are genuinely good for you. First of all, your confidants and friends will give you the most sincere encouragement and support to help you avoid the pitfalls. The second is the seniors who are people of insight, who will give you objective advice and correct guidance. Finally, there are those honest colleagues who don't care about personal gains and losses, and only want to see your success. You can communicate with these people more and get close to them, their energy field will help you a lot.
Friends in the workplace, remember that the workplace is a place full of conflicts of interest, and you should always be wary of those who feel threatened by your progress. But at the same time, you should also cherish those who are genuinely good for you, and only with the support of such friends and mentors can you be invincible in the workplace.
Summary:1 "Leaders react with a slight reservation, perhaps fearing that your success will threaten their status, and even praise may be mixed with subtle criticism to ensure that their position and authority are not shaken. "
2. "There is always competition among colleagues, and when your achievements surpass theirs, their jealousy will follow, laughing at your mistakes and talking about your predicament. "
3. "The important thing is to keep faith in your goals, not to be distracted by the outside world, to keep going, and to be like that female colleague, even in a competitive environment. "
4. "In a competitive workplace, your opponents are the ones who don't want you to succeed and will try to break your confidence and persuade you to pass up your chances, because your success means their failure. "
5. "In this interest field, there are still people who are sincerely good for you, and there are your confidants and friends who will give you the most sincere encouragement and support; Seniors of insight will give you objective advice and correct guidance. It is those honest colleagues who do not care about personal gains and losses, and only want to see your success. "
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