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Aren't you curious that the words "persistence", "hard work" and "self-discipline" shouldn't be very positive words?
Now why don't you want to be in your own dictionary?
Actually, you should feel this way in your life.
For example, when you tell yourself that I want to become a self-disciplined person, in fact, the side meaning of this sentence is that you are not a self-disciplined person, and self-discipline is actually difficult.
I used to love saying these words, and when I say them, I feel like I'm instantly inspired.
However, when these words are mentioned recently, I always feel that my heart sinks, and the pressure immediately comes.
I always feel like I'm panicking and I'm wasting my time.
Instead of bringing me positive energy, these words made my emotions more and more negative.
In fact, the real internal drive of "persistence", "hard work" and "self-discipline" should be voluntary.
But many times we only see the meaning at face value.
I was very resistant in my heart, but I didn't allow it to slow down for half a beat.
As a result, my life was in a hurry, but there was no successful effect.
It will only make your life more and more anxious and anxious.
"Persistence", "hard work" and "self-discipline" are all good words, but they all contain that you have to take action.
If you demand more of these words than you can do, then you will only get more and more tired.
Then these words will not be beautiful to you, and they will gradually become a burden.
So, these words can only become good if you take action, and if you don't act, these words are negative energy for you.
We have to learn to find relaxation in life, "persistence", "hard work" and "self-discipline" are all good, but we must find our own rhythm.
Don't let someone else's footsteps disrupt your rhythm, then you will only be overwhelmed.
We don't need to be labeled, we don't need to be controlled by these words.
Find your own comfortable state, don't self-exhaustion.
We must correct our mentality and recognize the essence of the problem.
Only after the mindset is set in the right can you give the true meaning of "perseverance", "hard work" and "self-discipline".
Accept your desires and see what you can do.
Hopefully, you will have "like", "willing" and "action" in your dictionary in the future.
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