In life, many women will be played with by men, they are often simple-minded, easy to trust others, and will always be deceived by men because of their passion.
For women, feelings are precious and need to be cared for, but because of the characteristics of women, they will always be hurt by someone else's words or actions.
So, what can be done to avoid being scammed? How can a woman protect herself?
In fact, if you want to know whether a woman is easy to be played with by men, it is very simple, and the details of life can be glimpsed.
A woman who is easily played with by men generally has these qualities.
1. It is especially easy to believe in love
Women who are particularly prone to believing in love tend to be very simple. But at the same time there is a fatal flaw: too much desire to be loved.
Ma Dong said a sentence in "Wonderful Sayings" that I can't forget for a long time: "People who are very bitter in their hearts need how much sweetness to be filled" "People who are bitter in their hearts only need a little sweetness to fill it".
Maybe it's because of the original family, or maybe because of their personality, when they are rarely loved, and when a man suddenly appears to her and says love, they will be easily captured, believing that what men say will always be forever.
They are too easy to trust a person, and they will always believe that person because of a word.
But how can a man's feelings be stable? You can't be sure that he won't fall in love with someone else the next second. You know, it's his freedom.
It's easy to believe that there is nothing wrong with love, but if you want not to be played with by men, women should be able to open their inner self-protection mechanism while you believe in love, so that they can have the ability to respond to unexpected situations, so as to avoid being hurt, or in other words, be less hurt.
Second, it is extremely easy to be chased
The "sunk cost" of psychology must have been heard by everyone.
Sunk costs refer to the cost of time, money, emotion, and so on that you have invested and have a hard time recouping.
When a man pursues you, the more time, money, and affection he spends, then he needs to consider the sunk cost he has invested when he wants to give up on you.
Men are snobbish, and they value sunk costs far more than women.
Therefore, when a woman is pursued again, there is almost no time and money cost to the man, then there is a high probability that they will be decisively given up.
The harder it is to get, the harder it is to give up.
Therefore, if a woman wants to be cherished, she must raise her requirements in the process of being pursued, and not be chased too easily.
Third, it is extremely easy to give without reservation
Women are sensual. When they are faced with the pursuit of men, they are often easily moved.
Especially after accepting this relationship, it is natural to give without reservation. Because they believe that their efforts will be rewarded.
However, the reality is often harsher. Just like many housewives now, they sacrifice themselves for their husbands and families, and they give without reservation, even at the expense of their careers, freedoms, and dreams.
But what did they get in exchange? It's the partner's disapproval, it's the accusation, "Aren't you just going to take a child, how easy" and so on.
Even their husbands can't understand their wives, let alone men and women who are in love and haven't yet entered into marriage!
Therefore, in a relationship, a woman needs to give, but not unreservedly giving, let alone taking it for granted that she can get something in return.
There is a saying: "A woman in love has zero IQ". For most women, they will always become stupid and naïve in their relationships, and only when they are toyed with all over their bodies can they suddenly realize these mistakes they have made in their relationships.
Therefore, women, when the water is full, it overflows, and when love is full, it loses. Seven points of love for others, three points of love for oneself.
Please love yourself and protect yourself before you love others.
Whenever you go, put yourself first.
Love needs to be sensuous and more importantly, rational, and when the two cannot be balanced, it is destined to be hurt.
Advancing and retreating appropriately and relaxing is the best way to treat love.
Male and female affection