Nagging about things around youI have a friend who got married only to find out that his father-in-law and mother-in-law never talk, and they look at each other as air.
However, there is no divorce either.
Because, the two have passed the hatred period when they want to divorce, and they don't plan to remarry anyway.
So, two people lived the life of two strangers in one home.
Take turns using the kitchen and bathroom, and live in separate rooms, as long as you don't bring other people with each other, and return to your accommodation.
When I heard about such a family structure, I was shocked and even a little confused.
Isn't this just "the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside"?
Yes. The new generation of family structures seems to be like this.
This friend of mine has become like this in his own little family. He has a lover who has been in love for the first time for 9 years, and he tries not to go home if he can. What about his daughter-in-law? I also see the clues in the lies covered by our friends for many years.
After being discouraged, as the proprietress forcibly occupied a brand store under the name of a friend, and the income went to herself.
The family's property was also divided in several quarrels.
It's all a family structure that exists in name only.
This kind of family structure can get by, and I don't even bother to divorce.
There is also a family structure, which is the AA family.
It is a marriage in which young people get married and set the rules. AA system for all household expenses. Personal income belongs to the individual.
This kind of contractual marriage, financial independence, and family stability are extremely poor.
A quarrel with one mouth is likely to be divorce.
The role of love in this marriage is just a flair.
Living together is only a mutual physiological need, and marriage is what should be done at an age.
Being able to get married is just because the other party has a certain economic strength.
The last one, the single-person family structure.
Single men and women who do not need to marry or divorce.
There is a lot of pressure, people are not sincere, and it is better to rely on yourself than on others.
It's better to live with anyone than to live alone.
You're sure he's not leaving, it's a sense of security.
You're sure you're not leaving, it's a sense of belonging.
Neither side will leave, this is a sense of happiness.
The best love is: it starts with the heart and ends with a white head.
If you embrace it, you will be safe, and if you accompany it, you will be warm
--Lin Huiyin