Retirement dinner freak phenomenon Visitors vs. invitees
It looks like he's having fun.
For some, retirement days can be like uninhibited relaxation after a hearty lunch. As a result, whenever rumors of a party come out, these optimists who "come with the wind" will be like a gust of fresh wind, inadvertently rushing into a group of cheerful netizens, adding a lot of happy atmosphere to them.
They have a "go with the flow" mentality for their retirement life, and they are very good at enjoying life, whether it is eating or participating in various social interactions, they will give people a very relaxed and happy feeling. Their presence brings laughter and sometimes delights those who don't plan to go to dinner in the first place. Their arrival has added vitality and joy to our retirement party.
The first member of the media to get the news.
Journalists are often the best at delivering news in the workplace, and this tradition has not changed even when they reach retirement age. Whatever happens, they will know, so they are also the first to know. They like to meet in crowded places and see parties as a great place to bond and exchange information. Therefore, even if we don't get any invitations, they will be there in time to provide us with many fresh and interesting topics.
Their appearance not only added a beautiful scenery to the banquet, but also deepened people's understanding of each other and made the dinner more interesting.
There are always some self-righteous old oilers.
Some retired elderly people, although they have long changed the circle of life, always have a sense of "who am I", and always think that they should participate in social interactions such as banquets. They think they are here to make everyone have a face, or they feel that they can come to enhance the level and atmosphere of the meal. So, they often take the initiative to ask for a dinner party and make it special through their presence and attendance.
Everyone will accept them out of respect for them and respect for their history.
Elders who are not invited and live in seclusion.
Some people, once they retreat, are like being completely isolated from the outside world, and they prefer to stay in their own side of the world and feel the peace and loneliness. No matter how much you send them an invitation, they will still go fishing on the lakeside, or read a book quietly, and they will not attend any dinner.
Those elderly people who live alone prefer to be alone, without the need for social interaction to fill the gaps in their hearts, and they feel that their retirement is enough. Perhaps they are like a lonely goose, wandering away from the crowd and unwilling to socialize with others.
Busy permanent power unit.
Even if they have retreated, they have not stopped moving forward, they are always in a busy posture and fully enjoy the joy of life. They can go to the gym to work out or travel with friends, and they have a lot of fun things to do in their lives, so your invitation is just a choice in their plans and not a priority.
When dealing with busy people, you have to plan your time in advance and come up with the conditions that will appeal to them. Therefore, when you are preparing for your retirement dinner, make sure to be well prepared so that there are no conflicts in the schedule or not being able to invite them.
Long-distance travelers.
For some people, retirement is like a fresh start, carrying their bags and treating their pension as a source of youth. Perhaps, they are now strolling around a historic site overseas or basking on the beach. The relationship between them has been separated by a long distance, and no matter how much you try to keep them, you can't summon them back from a distant place.
They will be filled with a yearning for freedom and adventure in their later years, and they will yearn to reach a wider world. Perhaps, during their long journey, participating in a banquet was just a short stop.
Brief summary. On this special day, whether you invite uninvited guests or not, join us for dinner. In one meal, all kinds of people and various mentalities come together to outline a colorful picture of life. Whether it is an optimistic and cheerful person, a journalist, or an elderly person who feels good about himself, their choices and their participation should be respected by us.
And those reclusive old people, busy perpetual motion machines, and traveling travelers will have different life trajectories, and they prefer to be in their own little world, or busy with other things, or to explore those unknown scenery. Whether they attend the dinner or not, we have to respect their own choices.
The dinner party is just a short stop in life, a moment of gathering and parting. We don't need to care too much about whether we are invited or not, because these sincere feelings, precious memories, will always be with us and will never change. Let us taste the ups and downs of life in every dinner and paint our own unique picture of life. Inject vitality and interest into your retirement life.