When mothers give birth to their babies, in addition to a sense of relaxation of "finally unloading", they will also pay more attention to the appearance of the baby.
As for appearance, what makes Bao Ma particularly concerned is:
Whether the baby has a birthmark, whether the location of the birthmark will be obvious, etc.
The reason why everyone pays more attention to birthmarks is that they are afraid that birthmarks will affect the baby's appearance and physical health, so many mothers and family members will pay special attention to the emotions and diet of pregnant women during pregnancy, for fear that an oversight will cause abnormal development of the fetus.
The eldest grandson had a birthmark on his face, and the mother-in-law angrily scolded the daughter-in-law for not being responsible.
A neighbor in the community gave birth to a big fat boy some time ago, which should have been something worth celebrating, but their family had a conflict because of it.
It turned out that after the child was born, there was a coffee-colored birthmark the size of a one-yuan coin on her cheek, and her mother-in-law was very angry when she saw it, angrily accusing her daughter-in-law of not being responsible, and she must have "done bad things" and was too willful during pregnancy. However, the daughter-in-law felt that she was very aggrieved and thought that the child's birthmark was not her reason.
A boy with such a big piece of dirt on his face must not be laughed at in the future!
How many times have I said you, don't do bad things when you're pregnant, eat less takeout and don't eat barbecue, you don't listen, you don't like the food I cook, you don't like it, do you say that the taste of the food is important, or is the child's health and appearance important? Why are you so willful? It's useless to regret it now! ”
Seeing the child's birthmark, the mother's psychology will also be very uncomfortable, everyone wants the child's face and body to be clean, but there are always some people who will backfire.
When there is an accident or problem with the baby, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is often the mother, thinking that they did not do a good job and did not pay attention to some details during pregnancy, and often attributed all the reasons to the mother, but in fact, this is unfair.
If the child has a problem, it is actually the mother herself, if you have to be blamed by the family, denying their contribution to pregnancy for ten months, then the mother is likely to have postpartum depression and physical weakness caused by low mood after giving birth.
So, what is the cause of birthmark formation?
Genetic factors. If the parents have a large or small birthmark, then the child also has a high probability of having a birthmark; If the parents do not have a birthmark, then the probability of the child having a birthmark is relatively small.
Therefore, if the child has a birthmark, parents should not blame themselves too much and see if they have a birthmark on their body, because it is difficult for us to change it because of genetic problems.
External stimuli. If the parents themselves do not have a birthmark, but the child has a birthmark, then it may also be that the mother was exposed to external stimuli during pregnancy, such as collisions, nuclear radiation, hormones, drugs, etc.
Lack of nutrients. Although today's family conditions do not appear to be unable to eat, many young people do not pay attention to their diets and have irregular living habits.
For example, if you eat high-calorie, non-nutritious, fast food, barbecue, drinks, etc., eat less grains, vegetables and fruits during pregnancy, then the nutrients will naturally not be intake, so that nutrients and trace elements will be correspondingly lacking, and for a long time, malnutrition will occur.
These factors may lead to local hyperpigmentation or abnormal development of the fetus, resulting in the formation of birthmarks that are too dark in color and different shapes.
Try not to do these "two things" after pregnancy
Acting too fast. Some women belong to the acute child, in the pregnancy is still in the hurry, vigorous and resolute, everything is strong, although pregnancy does not need to be too squeamish, but the appropriate slowing down of the action, slow down, is also pregnant mothers should pay attention to.
Because if the pregnant mother moves too fast, acts impulsively and recklessly, and does heavy work to carry things, then it is easy for the protruding belly to be hit unnecessarily.
If it often touches the belly, it may cause the baby's fragile capillaries to suddenly crack in the process of growth and development, resulting in bruising and slowly forming birthmarks.
Picky. Pregnant women's appetite is often not good, especially in the first trimester, there will often be morning sickness, nausea, unable to eat, etc., once the mother does not eat much, then the fetus will naturally not absorb enough nutrients.
If the morning sickness reaction is over, the pregnant mother still has picky eating behavior, then it is correspondingly prone to lack of calcium, iron, magnesium and other trace elements and phenylalanine, etc., which will affect the synthesis of pigment in the fetus, resulting in increased pigmentation and the formation of birthmarks.
Hot Mom Quotes: Giving birth to a baby is sometimes like "opening a blind box", I don't know what the baby will look like, if it meets your expectations, then everyone is happy;
If there are some special conditions, parents will also be a little disappointed, but, as parents, we should be calm and correctly look at some small defects in the baby's body.
If the birthmark can disappear naturally, don't worry too much; If it grows bigger and bigger, then it is necessary to go for a check-up in time and consult a doctor on how to solve it.
It will be more beneficial for the family to face it in a positive way and let the child have an optimistic attitude.
Moms, do you pay attention to your diet during pregnancy?