Many moments of can't help laughing are contributed by the eldest lady, such as: the eldest lady hit her son Changbai with her head.
There is a reason for crashing into Changbai this time.
Because her grandmother was poisoned, the eldest lady was punished by Changbai and asked her to go back to her hometown in Youyang for ten years.
The eldest lady felt that Changbai's punishment was too heavy and harsh, and she deliberately embarrassed her, so she turned her head and slammed into her son without hesitation.
Changbai, of course, knew her worries and pointed it out directly:
The mother looked down on the eldest aunt's maiden businessman, and sneered at her, and wanted her mother to return to Youyang, but she would be restrained by the eldest aunt, and the mother naturally refused. ”
The eldest lady did ridicule Mrs. Li in Youyang's hometown, but what she didn't know was that her worries, like her people, were stupid and cute.
Because whether it is what she has experienced or is experiencing, or the gift of time, Li will treat her well, not embarrass her.
The eldest lady probably didn't know what happened when Minglan returned to her hometown.
At that time, Shulan met someone unladylike, met Sun Xiucai, who was ignorant and shameless and greedy, and was PUA, harshly reprimanded, and domestic violence, and it was with the help of Minglan that she got out of the sea of suffering.
And Minglan is the daughter of the eldest lady.
Just this kindness, when Li thinks about it, he has to thank Minglan and the eldest lady, so why bother to embarrass the eldest lady?
In the past, there were indeed jealousy and sarcasm, but compared with kindness and the happiness of children, what are those few words?
Secondly, Sheng Wei and Sheng Hong's cousins have always had a good relationship.
Sheng Wei of Youyang's hometown, as a wealthy family in Youyang, continues to provide economic support for the Sheng family in the capital (of course, the Sheng family in the capital is not bad), and the Sheng family in the capital continues to climb upwards in the official career, enhancing the identity and status of the Youyang Sheng family, and the two rooms are mutually beneficial and work together.
At this time, the eldest lady went to Youyang, how could Sheng Wei not be cautious?
Sheng Wei will definitely tell the Li family to treat the eldest lady well, how dare the Li family, who is a wife and husband, to embarrass the eldest lady, and not obey the husband's orders?
Sheng Hong or Changbai only need to greet the eldest lady in the letter to their hometown, and the people in their hometown will know what to do, so why be embarrassed?
Moreover, Changbai is a delicate person, he thinks of his mother's pain, and he will find a way to remove such obstacles for the eldest lady.
I'm afraid that after I go, what I really have to worry about is not the eldest lady but the Li family, and the Li family is even more afraid that he will not treat the eldest lady well, and cause trouble for himself, his husband, and his children, and be criticized by others.
Besides, just like Mother Liu said to the eldest lady, "As long as Brother Bai'er has prosperous official luck and a good future, who in your hometown dares to snub you?" If it's really the uncle and lady who treat you badly for that old grudge with you, you can ask her: How many sons and girls do you have who are so good with our brothers and sisters? ”
Liu's mother's words are comforting and indisputable facts.
As they grow older, they ultimately rely on their children in their later years.
The mother is more expensive than the son, and the achievements of the three children of the eldest lady are higher than those of the Li family, especially the achievements of the son.
Changbai's first scientific examination was in high school, which was the glory of the entire Sheng family, and it also made the Li family's face bright.
Speaking of which, there was a strict hierarchy of status in that era, Shinong Industry and Commerce.
Youyang's Sheng family is doing business, and they need to rely on the Sheng family in the capital to improve their status, to put it more carefully, Li's son Changwu needs the help of Changbai, the son of the eldest lady.
The pros and cons are here, human nature seeks advantages and avoids disadvantages, how could the Li family embarrass the eldest lady for those insignificant words?
Probably on the first day of the eldest lady's trip to Youyang, she smiled at her enmity.
Or, the two of them looked at each other and smiled, and everything was silent.
Besides, when they said this, they were probably very young.
It's too normal to be young and vigorous and say something inappropriate.
What person with a sense of superiority has not shown his superiority to others, either explicitly or implicitly?
However, as we grow older, the years have blessed us with compassion, tolerance, and generosity.
Under the filter of time, maybe these bad memories have long been filtered out, maybe Li has long not remembered.
The eldest lady still remembers, it can be seen that she is really simple, as stupid and cute as ever.
In fact, as long as she thinks about it a little, she doesn't have to worry that the Li family will embarrass her:
In the evaluation system of that era, she was indeed more respected than Mrs. Li.
His family background is better, his husband's career is smooth, his children are more promising, and he has them behind him, so he doesn't have to worry about anything.
Moreover, a really simple and kind person, after getting along for a long time, others will also understand her mind.
Even if the Li family still has a little bit of a problem in his heart, in the more and more time he spends with the eldest lady, the Li family will really understand that the eldest lady is just straightforward and fast-talking, and does not have any bad intentions.
I have no doubt that their relationship will get better and better in each other's company and with the blessing of the years.
On the day when the eldest lady is going to leave Youyang and return to the capital, they are more likely to be teary-eyed and reluctant.
In life, who hasn't had a difficult moment and a low point in life?
The eldest lady was punished to return to her hometown to think about it, which was the darkest moment of her life.
If the Li family falls into the well at this time, he will be asking for troubles in the future, and the Li family, as the head of the house, will not be unclear about this.
No matter what aspect you think about, when the eldest lady returned to Youyang's hometown, the Li family clamped down on the eldest lady and deliberately found fault, which was not a good strategy.
At most, it is to let myself out of the breath of the year, but this breath is too insignificant compared to the possible troubles in the future.
The adult world has long been not a vent of emotions, it is all pros and cons, everything is weighed with pros and cons, and it is the best choice to let this breath of anger that was received back then drift away with the wind.
Therefore, the eldest lady's worries are really superfluous.
The more scared you are, the bigger the problem.
Many things, when you think they are big, but your imagination magnifies them, and when you really face them, you will find that they are actually very small, as small as a sentence or a smile, and it will be solved.
When you encounter a problem, you face it head-on, it is not as big and difficult as you imagined.