In today's society, health has become an increasingly important issue in people's lives.
Compared with the concept of not caring about minor illnesses and recovering major illnesses in the past, people now feel that regular physical examinations are more and more necessary.
In 2019, Ms. Li, who wanted to check her body, participated in unit activities and went to Nanjing Jiangbei People's Hospital for a physical examination.
What Ms. Li didn't expect was that this physical examination directly turned her life upside down.
The cause of this great change was not a medical condition, but the medical examination report itself.
On this physical examination report, Ms. Li's past medical history column reads:There is 1 child, 7 miscarriages, 24 premature births, and no stillbirths and abnormal fetuses.
At this time, Ms. Li was only 30 years old, had just been married for 6 years, and her only daughter was in kindergarten.
In mid-September 2019, Ms. Li, who lives in Pukou, Nanjing, received a physical examination report from her employer.
From the strange eyes of the sender, Ms. Li faintly realized that there might be something wrong with her medical examination report.
After taking the physical examination report, Ms. Li quickly flipped through it.
After seeing that the health values were normal, Ms. Li's worries about the disease gradually decreased.
But just as Ms. Li breathed a sigh of relief, she saw the information in the column of past medical history, which was the least important.
This look directly made Ms. Li stay on the spot, and her heart seemed to stop beating.
In Ms. Li's medical history, the fourth line of fertility information reads:There was 1 child, 7 miscarriages, 24 premature births, and no stillbirths and abnormal fetuses.
When pigs fly!
This was Ms. Li's first reaction when she saw the message.
I know that she only got married 6 years ago, and she has never had sex before, let alone an abortion.
If you really have experienced so many surgeries, how can your uterus withstand so much damage, and how can you give birth to your lovely daughter?
What's more, how can a history of up to 31 pregnancies happen to a 30-year-old woman like herself?
This is neither common sense nor science.
The report made Ms. Li very angry.
After returning home, Ms. Li angrily told her husband about the incident and handed him the inspection report.
What Ms. Li didn't expect was that such an act of wanting to seek her husband's comfort made her husband blow up.
Unbearable insulting words such as slut, hidden deeply, etc., spit out from the mouth of her husband, who is usually gentle and elegant.
Ms. Li, who was scolded by her husband, was directly stunned, and tears began to burst out of her eyes.
She never expected that her usually loving husband would take a ridiculous physical examination report seriously.
Seeing her husband's fierce reaction, although Ms. Li felt deeply cold in her heart, she still endured her grief and explained to her husband.
She didn't want her family's 6-year marriage, which had been hard to maintain, to be shattered because of this medical examination report.
Her husband scoffed at Ms. Li's explanation.
Even though Ms. Li said that the data itself is unscientific, her husband still only thinks that people have different physiques.
Compared with his wife's pale explanation, he trusted the authoritative report issued by the hospital.
Seeing that her bitter comfort still failed to calm her husband's anger and regain her husband's trust, Ms. Li, who was grief-stricken, had no choice but to look at her husband with tears and ask him to go to the hospital with her to ask for an explanation.
However, even this request did not get her husband's approval.
Regarding his wife's idea of going back to the hospital, he only replied: ".it, you're not ashamed, I still feel ashamed! ”
Her husband's answer made Ms. Li's heart go to ashes.
She didn't know how to regain her husband's trust, restore the harmony of the family to its former days, and bring back the husband who loved her and loved her.
A few days later, Ms. Li's husband still didn't pay attention to his wife, and in his heart, Ms. Li was already a ** who had multiple pregnancies and multiple abortions before marriage.
As for what happened in marriage, he couldn't even think about it.
Every night when she was away from home for a business trip due to overtime, every time her wife went out for various reasons, these things that seemed normal now made Ms. Li's husband deeply afraid.
Perhaps for the sake of his daughter's healthy growth, the angry husband did not file for divorce from Ms. Li.
Although the marriage between the two who had been in love for 6 years was not completely broken because of this incident, there were countless glass slags in their hearts.
After this incident, the two began to sleep in separate rooms, and their daughter also went to pick up the day alone, and almost stopped talking.
For Ms. Li, her husband's distrust was a complete chill to her heart.
For Ms. Li's husband, he has deceived himself for so many years, and his wife deserves to be snubbed and abused by himself.
How deeply the two loved each other in the past, how much hatred there is in their hearts now.
The sweet memories of love in the past have now become a sharp knife inserted into the heart.
And the origin of all this is because of this ridiculous medical examination report.
Later, Ms. Li said in an interview:"This has caused a big shadow in my husband's heart, there is a considerable mustard, every time we have a little friction, he will always come out and talk about me. ”
In addition to her husband's neglect, what made Ms. Li even more devastated was that her husband also told her mother-in-law the news of the physical examination report.
Ms. Li had a relationship with her mother-in-law before, and there were disputes because of various living habits and ideological differences, but because of her husband's maintenance, they were quite passable with each other.
When her mother-in-law learned about the medical examination report, Ms. Li not only had to bear the snub of her husband, but also had to be sneered at by her mother-in-law from time to time.
Whenever her mother-in-law took the physical examination report presented by the hospital to talk about something, Ms. Li seemed to be a little shorter.
Compared with the "authoritative report", all of Ms. Li's explanations pale in comparison.
Even if the reporter came to adjust later, the mother-in-law just said coldly:"I definitely believe this report, the report is clearly written, it was written by the doctor, and it was not written by me, I don't believe who the doctor believes! ”
Whether it was her husband's neglect or her mother-in-law's insult, Ms. Li felt tormented.
Later, Ms. Li was really unwilling to continue to endure the unwarranted infamy, so she had to go to Nanjing Jiangbei People's Hospital alone for inquiry.
After coming to the hospital, because there were many physical examination items and there was no specific person in charge, Ms. Li had to find the person in charge of the department - Feng Lu, vice president of the hospital and director of the obstetrics and gynecology department, after many trips.
Feng Lu, who was no longer in charge of the specific examination, did not know much about the situation of Ms. Li's physical examination report, but the values on the physical examination report did arouse his suspicions.
After some investigation, Feng Lu finally gave Ms. Li a statement - it was a mistake caused by a mistake in the hospital's entry.
Facing the reporter's camera, Feng Lu, vice president of the hospital, explained to Ms. Li:"We found that this was when entering personal information and birth history, because of the swing of the computer cursor, which caused this mistake, and it was not found immediately after this deviation, and it was directly packaged and handed over to the unit. ”
When the truth was told from Feng Lukou, the feeling of sourness and grievance instantly surged into Ms. Li's heart.
During these days, I endured my husband's alienation and abuse, and my mother-in-law's cold ridicule, and the cause of all this was just a mistake in swinging the computer cursor?
However, just when Ms. Li thought that she could get revenge and return to normal life, Feng Lu's action made Ms. Li angry again.
Feng Lu actually proposed to use two old hens as compensation.
Ms. Li was completely unable to understand the hospital's behavior.
"The dean said to compensate the two old hens, I don't understand what he used these two old hens for."
Because of this physical examination report, there was a huge rift in Ms. Li's originally harmonious family, even if the truth was revealed, the past injuries would not be reported, even if Ms. Li told her husband and mother-in-law the truth, she didn't know if they would believe her "one-sided words".
For such a serious consequence, the hospital that was the initiator actually took out two old hens as compensation, which is not so much a compensation as a humiliation.
Regarding Ms. Li's anger and incomprehension, Vice Dean Feng Lu was very calm, and he explained to reporters"It's equivalent to this thing happening, we have such a mistake, we can compensate in a small amount, which is equivalent to buying some fruit, buying two chickens, expressing an apology, a kind of goodwill. ”
Such "apologies" and "kindness" are not blessed for Ms. Li.
Ms. Li only hopes that the hospital will give her an official explanation.
Regarding Ms. Li's attitude, Vice Dean Feng Lu said:"She said that she was affected by something, and we can't go into that for specifics. ”
Deeply impressed by the hospital's perfunctory attitude, Ms. Li made up her mind to seek justice for herself through legal channels.
In this regard, the court only said that they would also support the judgment of the law, and did not give Ms. Li the respect she deserved.
A physical examination report that marked a normal woman as having 7 miscarriages and 24 premature births not only caused Ms. Li to suffer injustice, but also shattered her originally happy life.
And the hospital that issued this ridiculous medical check-up list was only willing to take out two old hens, and did not even let the person concerned know who caused the mistake, which is really unacceptable.
For Ms. Li's experience, the reporters who accompanied her to find out the truth expressed sympathy.
Wen Xin, a special commentator of Litchi News, commented sharply:As a hospital, if he can't empathize with his patients, how can we believe that the doctors in this hospital will have the medical ethics of a doctor's parents? ”
In Wen Xin's view, this incident not only reflects the perfunctory numbness of the hospital, but also reflects the management problems of the hospital.
"In addition, this matter directly allows us to see the huge loopholes in the management of this hospital, first of all, as a link of physical examination, he is negligent, the physical examination report does not have a review procedure, and the omission was not found immediately, and it can also be seen afterwards that the hospital patient accountability and complaint channels are also not smooth, and there is no responsibility identification and punishment for the doctor concerned. ”
The reporter on the side also agreed with Wenxin's statement, and added:The consequences of this misunderstanding may be subversive and devastating, but the hospital's attitude towards this is to avoid the important and trivial, and not to show a proper attitude, for the hospital, his mentality is problematic, and the responsibility is not positive. ”
The reporters are well aware of the problems of the hospitals involved in this matter - the lack of supervision and rectification feedback channels.
It is precisely because of the lack of communication channels that Ms. Li, who is unable to protect her rights through the hospital, has no choice but to take up the law and has no choice but to embark on a long road of rights protection.
Instead of accepting the two hens provided by the hospital, Ms. Li found a lawyer to take Nanjing Jiangbei People's Hospital to court after the last negotiation failed.
For Ms. Li, the hospital has caused her so much pain.
When she suffered the humiliation of her husband and mother-in-law because of the hospital, she had to spend energy and fight a lawsuit with the hospital in order to defend her legitimate rights.
There is no doubt that the hospital caused two injuries to Ms. Li, which is not something that a public welfare organization should do.
Before the court officially **, the judge contacted Ms. Li to mediate with the person in charge of the hospital, and he hoped that the hospital would formally apologize to Ms. Li and come to the door to explain to Ms. Li's husband and mother-in-law.
The Court hoped that this would eliminate the adverse impact on Ms Li as a result of the medical examination report.
During the mediation, the hospital made verbal promises, but never put the apology and explanation into practice.
Ms. Li, who thought the incident was resolved, had no choice but to sue the hospital again with a complaint.
On November 5, 2019, according to a Purple Cow reporter, in the second pre-trial mediation, the hospital finally gave a clear apology:Compensation of 1,500 yuan and a new correct medical examination report
After learning the truth of the matter, Ms. Li's husband also changed his previous attitude and stopped verbally insulting his wife.
And Ms. Li was very cold about her husband's behavior before, but finally forgave him.
On February 14, 2022, a reporter paid a return visit to Ms. Li.
From the interview, it can be seen that Ms. Li and her husband have reconciled as before, and the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has not eased or deteriorated because of the incident three years ago.
When mentioning the ridiculous report, Ms. Li smiled helplessly:"I can only say that it's all over, it's useless to say anything. ”
Many netizens expressed sympathy for Ms. Li's experience.
Some netizens think the values in the report are simply ridiculous:"24 times premature! A preterm birth is considered preterm after 28 weeks of pregnancy. 28 weeks is 196 days, and 24 times is 13 years, which means that you get pregnant every year since adulthood, and then you lose your ...... at 28 weeksWho's so interested? ”
Some netizens analyzed the reasons for the hospital's mistakes:"The hospital should want to enter a 7-day menstrual period and a 24-day cycle. It seems that these two data should be entered in the same space on the previous line, which is probably a work oversight. ”
Some netizens also said that the hospital is simply not human:"Two hens? The hospital apologized for this, are you sure it's not funny?! It is recommended that the hospital compensate two catties of walnuts, to be honest, if her husband and mother-in-law believe such data, IQ is really a big problem! Let's give her husband and mother-in-law brain supplements. ”
There is no doubt that this absurd medical examination report has caused Ms. Li to suffer too much grievances and pain.
The hospital, which was the initiator, did not take its due responsibility.
Even in the final apology, Ms. Li did not receive sufficient compensation, and the hospital was not even willing to come to the door to apologize and explain.
The matter of the medical examination report passed with the pre-trial settlement, but Ms. Li's future life will still be affected by this ridiculous paper.
Raise.