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If you ask what age is the most difficult in old age, many people will say 59 and 69 years old.
The reason is that the age of 59 is a hurdle in old age, and at the age of 60, it officially enters old age; The age of 69 means that your body has aged to a considerable extent, and you are an out-and-out "old man".
Therefore, people often celebrate their birthdays at the age of 60 "Huajia" and 70 years old "Gu Xi". On the one hand, it is the joy of one's birthday, and on the other hand, it is also to alleviate the sorrow of aging through festivities.
In ancient times, people's lifespan was usually not long, and there were even fewer people who could live to the age of sixtieth and rare, so there was also a sense of celebrating that they were still alive. However, with the progress of science and technology, medical treatment, and living standards are constantly improving, so it is now normal to live to "sixties" and "ancient rarities".
At the age of 59, many people are about to retire, and at such an age of transition, it is actually very embarrassing. Everyone is afraid of getting old, and at such an age when they are about to enter old age, this fear is often amplified.
Psychologically, it is easy to have negative emotions, feeling that most of my life has passed, and a feeling of desolation arises spontaneously. But we have to face this fact, to accept our physical aging, to accept our spiritual aging.
Another reason is that you can live a happy life in retirement soon, and you don't have to work hard for life anymore. But the physical condition is not enough, and there are all kinds of troubles. It's like you have a vacation and you don't have any money in your bag.
The age of 69 marks the imminent arrival of the old age, which is gradually approaching the end of life. You will find that not only is your body worse every year, but your life has also become more disadvantaged.
What used to be easy in everyday life now takes more time and effort to complete.
There are even elderly people who need to be taken care of by others because of illness.
This change has led to unspeakable worry and panic. At the same time, the fear of aging deepens. This is the innate psychology of human beings, but it is also a helpless proof against the laws of nature - the laws of birth, old age, sickness and death.
And many people have the habit of smoking and drinking, and as they get older, the disadvantages of these two things will gradually become apparent. Many diseases are caused by these, and at this time we have to consider quitting these two things.
And many people have formed a habit for a lifetime, and they will feel very uncomfortable after abstaining for a while.
In fact, aging and death are both inevitable experiences of life, and people begin to age from birth, and they are also approaching death step by step. I think we should keep a normal heart and live our lives cheerfully and optimistically.
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