What happened to the man who raised the child? Netizen: He was for my mother's body
Title of this article: What happens to men because of adoption? Netizen: "I'm going to pick up a girl!" ”
In real life, men who take care of children for others often encounter various difficulties and challenges. Parents give them infinite love, but when their children grow up, all they get is coldness and betrayal. This issue has received widespread attention and consideration from all walks of life.
i.A stepfather's experience in raising a man's child with the other party.
A man who raises the children of others, no matter how much he pays, will dedicate his efforts to the children of others at all costs, as long as he can make his life stable. However, when they reach adulthood, many people no longer care about their stepfather's behavior, but instead develop hatred for their stepfather. This made their stepfather very disappointed and angry, and they wanted to know if their choice and effort were worthwhile. However, they have never regretted it, just because they love their children deeply and want to give their future a good start.
Broadly defined: A stepfather's upbringing of a child is not only material, but also spiritual. They pay great attention to their children's life, life, study, life, etc. Some stepparents, like their biological fathers, have a responsibility for their children. Parents pay full attention to their children's interests and interests, and create an atmosphere that is conducive to the healthy development of children. However, they are not always paid as they deserve. Some children will resist and hate their stepparents, and they feel that their stepfather is benefiting from their mother. This series of injustices and misunderstandings made her stepfather very painful, but she was not discouraged by this, and she always retained a love for her children.
ii.Social perceptions and evaluations about stepfathers.
During the adoption process, due to the discrimination and rejection of the father in society, the stepfather was neglected or even abandoned by the children. In people's minds, stepparents are often seen as a vulnerable group and do not get the respect and recognition they deserve. In judicial practice, stepfathers are often a vulnerable group in judicial practice, and their legitimate rights are not well protected. Such differential treatment places a huge psychological burden on stepparents, not only for themselves, but also for their already small family life.
Explanation: The phenomenon of adopting a man in a family is not only an isolated phenomenon, but also a common social problem. In people's minds, stepfathers are often seen as strangers, competitors, and even enemies. People always have high expectations and expectations for their stepparents, but at the same time, they are suspicious and ostracized. Relatively speaking, biological fathers are more likely to gain social recognition and respect. This ideology is rooted in China's patriarchal culture and paternalism, which makes its role and status in the patriarchal society excluded and neglected. This kind of prejudice and discrimination caused heavy mental pressure on the stepfather, making the stepfather feel frustrated and helpless.
iii.Think about the relationship between stepchildren based on your own thoughts and experiences or experiences.
After so many examples, I have a new understanding of the relationship between my stepfather and my stepson. I believe that this problem is not unsolvable, and it still depends on cross-strait exchanges and joint efforts. Stepchildren may have emotional problems and resistance, and it will take some time to accept and understand the presence of a stepfather. The stepfather should listen patiently, take care of his child, and let him feel his love and tolerance. At the same time, the whole society should give more support and respect to stepchildren, so that they can live together with stepchildren on an equal footing and in dignity. Only in this way can the legal status of stepparents and stepchildren be continuously enhanced and enhanced.
Outreach: People have complicated feelings, as do stepfathers and stepdaughters. Although everyone is familiar with the story of stepfather and stepmother, it does not mean that stepfather and stepfather are both tragedies. The most important of these is communication and understanding, mutual respect and mutual recognition. Due to their own educational background and the relationship between their biological fathers, stepchildren have discrimination and suspicion against their stepfathers or stepmothers in some aspects. However, through sincere love for the stepfather, and a close connection with the stepfather, the stepfather's thoughts and attitudes towards the stepfather or stepmother can change. As a new generation of parents, we need to provide more support and protection for their stepfathers so that they can play a greater role in the family.
Summary: Men who take care of children for others face many difficulties and difficulties, but this does not mean that they are necessarily unhappy and will not be respected. This is the responsibility of the whole society and everyone, and it is also everyone's duty and obligation to create a fair and just growth environment for stepchildren. At the same time, stepfathers and stepmothers should also handle things with a more rational and calm mind, and resolve conflicts and misunderstandings with love and patience. In order for the relationship between stepparents and stepsons to be further improved, it must be improved through the joint efforts of two people. Summary: The stepparents' experience of raising their children alone is often neglected and betrayed, and the reason is largely due to social discrimination and prejudice against stepfathers. But this is not to say that a stepfather-stepson marriage will necessarily break down. Through mutual understanding, communication, and joint efforts, coupled with the support and respect given to stepparents in society, the relationship between father and son can be further developed. In this process, the stepfather must be sensible, sensible, patient, loving, patient, and create a healthy growth atmosphere for the child.