The lover psychology of the old man, the secret of the three men is revealed
From variety shows to heated discussions on the Internet, it seems to prove a point: when a man enters his 50s, he should say goodbye to extramarital affairs and return to his family. However, in reality, they often do the opposite.
In our interview, three men in their fifties share their inner worlds, so let's hear what they think about extramarital affairs.
Mr. Zheng, 59, started a lover relationship with a woman in her 50s a year ago, but his wife had no idea about it. Since the birth of their grandson, the wife has devoted herself to the care of her grandson and has no concern for his feelings.
Gradually, the relationship between the two became like old acquaintances, without any in-depth communication. His wife's time was filled with grandchildren, square dancers, and old sisters chatting, and he spent the rest of his time online except for going out for a walk.
On the Internet, he chatted very closely with this woman, she is also a lonely person, her husband is often out of town, and the children are not around. The two became closer and closer, and finally crossed the bottom line and began to date secretly.
They agreed not to destroy each other's families, but to rely on each other when they were lonely.
2.Mr. Wu, 55, has always wanted to find a lover who can understand him and have a common language with him, because he has no relationship with his wife, his personality is incompatible, and he cannot communicate.
Although I have endured it for the sake of my child, I still can't quench the longing in my heart. He hopes to meet a woman who is intellectually elegant and understands him, so that he can feel the spark of love.
If fate comes, he is willing to try an extramarital affair.
3.Mr. Gu's story tells us that love can lose its passion after the baptism of time. For some middle-aged men, they may become interested in women outside, especially those who are young, beautiful, and empathetic.
Although Mr. Gu's wife is very good to him, she is unable to arouse his emotions due to her mediocre appearance and old age. They had slept in separate beds for years, and his lover had brought him back to the feeling of his youth, which he cherished so much.
Although Mr. Gu had an extramarital affair, his wife did not stop him and chose to turn a blind eye. Mr. Gu also understands that his family is his roots, and his extramarital affair is only a short-lived passion that will not affect his family life.
Ending: Men in their fifties and sixties are indulging in extramarital affairs, which is actually a neglect of family responsibilities and conjugal feelings, and lacks the ability to resist **. Many men are lucky, overestimating their ability to control and think that they can play extramarital affairs without being discovered.
However, look at how many people around you have broken up their families and ruined their futures because of extramarital affairs, and how many people have broken their families and separated their loved ones because of this! Regardless of age, an affair is not true love, but a disaster.
Extramarital affairs are like playing with fire, and they often end up hurting themselves and regretting it. Marriage is not easy, you must be kind to your partner, and stay away from divorce. A lifetime and a pair of talents is the most beautiful love in the world!
What do you think about men in their fifties and sixties who are obsessed with extramarital affairs, whether this is love or disaster?