I know that many original partners are very sad when they encounter their husband's cheating, and I especially want to know the reason for my husband's cheating. Because in the consciousness of the original partner, as long as there is a reason for the man's cheating, we can find the answer to this reason.
For example, if the relationship between husband and wife is bad, we must start from the way husband and wife get along to solve the problem. If the junior rank is too high and there is something else to do, we must make efforts to separate the junior ranks.
But these ideas of the original partner are not comprehensive enough, not all cheating, all of them are related to the discord between husband and wife. Sometimes a man cheats because he is more greedy, even if the family is happy and the life is harmonious, he still wants more.
If this is the case, no matter how the wife changes herself and how she pleases the man, it cannot fundamentally solve the problem of the man's cheating.
Most men don't want to divorce after cheating, especially this kind of greedy man who "wants to go".
This type of man does have feelings for the family. They have both home and mistress in their hearts, so sometimes a man has a good relationship with his wife, and it does not delay the man having an affair outside.
For the "greedy man", we must first analyze the type of needs of the mistress, and then let the greedy man not be able to meet the needs of the mistress, and let him suffer a big loss because of cheating. Under the double pressure of "heart" and "interests", greedy men will become less greedy.
I told you that the junior is nothing more than a backer for money, people, feelings, and feelings, and I have mentioned to you before that when you encounter different types of juniors, how should you deal with them.
Today I will add one more point to you, in fact, the type of junior will flow.
For example, when every mistress first starts to fall in love with a cheating man, the two of them are you and me, and the mistress will feel that she is likely to be on top, and she will take action for this purpose. At this time, the junior wanted money, people, and feelings.
When Xiao San coaxes the cheating man every day, he will involuntarily separate the relationship between the husband and wife, and the wife is sad because of her husband's cheating, so the relationship between the husband and wife will become more and more tense. At this stage, the likelihood of divorce is very high.
If the wife copes properly at this time, she sees through the purpose of the mistress who wants to be on top, grasps the man's weakness at the top, and woos the man from below, focusing on one that makes the man have a headache and can't do anything.
If you let Xiao San jump to her feet, but she can't shake your position at all, you will find that the cheating problem does not seem to be so difficult to solve. Because you've taken the lead to a certain extent.
When Xiao San finds out that you are not an emotional soft persimmon, she will not be discouraged because of her few strategies.
The junior will be disappointed in the men around him, and at this time, most of the junior will consider her own situation, she will become more and more realistic, and the final appeal will change from the top to try to get more benefits.
During this period, the junior will gradually become shrewd and begin to grasp some of the weaknesses of men, or use men's connections and resources to pave the way for himself. Once she fails to ascend to the top, she will also try to get more benefits.
If the mistress becomes more and more shrewd, what the original partner has to do is to make the mistress aggravate his disappointment with the man. Because as long as the mistress is disappointed, she will stop pleasing men. As her purpose becomes more and more obvious, it will become easier for you to separate the mistress from the man.
Therefore, the original partner has to adopt different strategies to solve the problem of derailment in different periods. If your family is happy and the man is still cheating, you don't have to ask why, you just need to be clear:
For a greedy man, cheating also involves the calculation of costs, and if you make a man feel that the cost he paid after cheating is very large, he will naturally know how to stop it.
If a man cheats and makes him feel "worth it", then it's over, this mistress is solved, maybe there will be the next one, you only let the cheating man suffer because of cheating, he will stop the extramarital affair.