Mom, please help me send this 10,000 yuan to Liping's mother and daughter for the New Year, this is the year-end bonus I just issued. I saw my husband take out a wad of money from his trouser bag and hand it to his mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law took the money and was a little worried: "10,000 yuan is not a small amount, have you discussed this matter with your daughter-in-law?" ”
The husband lowered his voice: "That's definitely not, only the two of us know about this, don't tell Lingling about it." ”
Probably because he was a thief, the husband stuffed the money into his mother-in-law's hands and turned around and left. Unexpectedly, he bumped into me at the door of my mother-in-law's bedroom.
I was going upstairs to call their mother and son for lunch, and I happened to bump into this scene.
My husband panicked when he saw me pulling a face.
Daughter-in-law, listen to my explanation. ”
There's nothing to explain, you don't have to explain to me the money you earn, who you want to spend it on, you don't have to explain it to me. ”
My husband saw that I was not noisy or noisy, and I was still talking so calmly, so he panicked even more, and followed me downstairs.
I didn't say a word to him until after eating.
I thought it was a little strange before, because my husband's year-end bonus in previous years was not less than 30,000. No matter how little there is this year, it shouldn't be only 20,000!
His attitude towards life made me more and more unbearable, and I felt that I couldn't live well with him this year.
It is said that a person who marries for the second time is a "thief", and I don't think it's false at all.
My name is Lingling, my husband and I are the first marriage, and he is the second marriage to me.
In the past few years, my mother-in-law has been in poor health, so we haven't bothered her, and have always asked my mother to help us take care of the children.
I also have an older brother at home, so my dad helps my brother at home, and my mom helps me with two children at my house.
It's the Chinese New Year soon, and my mom has long been homesick and misses my dad, so I asked her to go back early. We'll pick her up after the New Year.
That knew that my mother had just gone back, and she had a cold due to a change of climate, and this time it was a bit serious, and she was hospitalized for a few days.
I thought that my mother had been helping me take care of the children for the past few years, and we should pay for the hospitalization, and I was about to tell my husband about it.
But my mother disagreed, she also specially called me **, girl, you have been taking care of the children at home for the past two years, and the living expenses of the whole family depend on Jiaming, and it is not easy for him. Mom is not an outsider, and I will tell you when I really don't have any money. ”
My mother is trying to reduce the burden for us day by day, but my husband saves private money behind my back again and again.
To be honest, after getting married, I found that living with this kind of remarried man is much more complicated than ordinary families.
It's like last year's Spring Festival, when my husband spent his entire annual leave with his eldest daughter.
Daughter-in-law, I want to go to Hangzhou to accompany Xiaoxing for the New Year, she is about to take the college entrance examination, and she has been making up classes very hard, and I want to go over to play with her for a few days during the New Year. ”
Xiaoxing is the daughter of her husband and ex-wife, and her children are preparing for exams and need the support of her parents.
should go, the college entrance examination is an important node in Xiaoxing's life, you usually don't have time to accompany you at work, and you should go to see her during the New Year's holiday. ”
I took the initiative to help my husband book a ticket early, and prepared bread, braised vegetables and water for him when he entered the station, for fear that he would be hungry on the way.
When Xiaoxing was about to take the college entrance examination, my husband said to me again: "Daughter-in-law, Xiaoxing said that she wanted to ask me to accompany her to take the college entrance examination, but I don't have a holiday!" ”
I think when he divorced his ex-wife, it still brought some trauma to the children, and if he could be by Xiaoxing's side in the college entrance examination, it would also be an empowerment. It would be good if Xiaoxing took a few more points because of this.
If you don't have a holiday, please do it! This time is not the busiest time for your company, and the children's college entrance examination is also a big deal, I believe your leaders can understand. ”
I also encouraged him to do more for his eldest daughter.
So, my husband took 10 days off, and after accompanying the exam, he specially took Xiaoxing out for a trip.
Later, Xiaoxing was admitted to the ideal university as he wished, and I was really happy, and this matter was over.
But what I didn't expect was that my husband had always kept a hand in the economy, and he guarded me like a thief from beginning to end, which was what I was most angry about.
When Xiaoxing went to college in her first year, her husband secretly took 20,000 yuan for her behind my back, which Xiaoxing said unintentionally the last time he came to play.
I asked my husband at the time, "Did you borrow this money or do you come here?" ”
He muttered for a long time, "It's the pocket money I usually save, plus the occasional overtime pay." ”
I haven't taken much care of Xiaoxing before, and her mother's business has not been good in the past few years, and she can't make much money. I don't want my daughter to be under pressure to study, and giving more subsidies can't make children feel aggrieved. ”
When we met, you were divorced from your ex-wife. I didn't have any holiday with her at all, and I always wanted them to have a good time, but you made me uncomfortable with me being so old and guarding me. "I put it bluntly.
Daughter-in-law, now that I hear you say this, I also think that I did something inappropriate. If there is anything on Xiaoxing's side in the future, I will definitely discuss it with you as soon as possible. ”
Knowing that his ex-wife's business is not good, her husband takes the initiative to bear more child support for his daughter, and he is also a responsible man.
Since I have decided to marry him, I must be ready to accept him completely. Since the money has been taken out, I will be a favor and not mess with him.
On New Year's Day this year, my husband invited a good buddy to his home for dinner, and the two of them were happy, chatting and chatting about the salary increase.
Jiaming, the efficiency of your department is better than ours, and the salary has increased by 2,000 yuan or 3,000 yuan? ”
My husband's panicked expression was seen by me, and he changed the topic at a speed of 200 percent, "Eat vegetables, eat vegetables, I bought this fish from the vegetable market early in the morning, try it." ”
As he spoke, he stood up and winked at the other party, trying to prevaricate the topic.
I could see the change in the other person's micro-expression that was first at a loss, then understood, and finally smiled.
During the whole meal, my husband blinked and stepped on other people's feet, for fear that others would leak his mouth again and I would find something again.
In just one year, I first found out that he was hiding private money, and then he was hiding a salary increase, and this time it was even more. Obviously gave out a year-end bonus of 30,000 yuan, but my husband only reported 20,000 yuan to me, I think he is getting more and more excessive.
Although I know that his eldest daughter is very well-behaved and competitive, since he has married me and started a new family, it is better to consider the current family first!
My mom was sick and couldn't let us pay a penny, but he kept secretly giving money to his daughter and ex-wife.
At night, when my mother-in-law and children went to sleep, I began to pack up my things and prepare to go back to my parents' house to celebrate the New Year.
My husband saw my thoughts and hurriedly blocked my hand: "Daughter-in-law, what are you doing here?" Isn't it 10,000 yuan less? Why do you still want to run away from home? ”
As he spoke, he shoved the previous 10,000 yuan into my hand. As soon as I let go of my hand, the money fell to the floor.
My mother-in-law heard movement in our room and came to open the door and come in.
Jiaming, don't let me worry about it. If husband and wife don't share wealth, they must not have the same heart, and this thing is what you did wrong. ”
Mom, Liping's business has failed and she still owes a lot of money, I just want to take this 10,000 yuan to let Xiaoxing have a happy New Year. ”
That's why Lingling is angry. In the afternoon, Lingling told me that her mother was reluctant to let you pay for the hospitalization, but you secretly took the money out and didn't discuss it with her, you are so cold to her heart! ”
Daughter-in-law, I didn't expect your mother to get sick when she went back. Or, send this 10,000 yuan back to your mother? ”
My husband immediately bent down to pick up the money on the ground and stuffed it into my hand.
I clenched my fingers and didn't pick them up, and people didn't think about giving it to us. Anyway, I don't want to stay here anymore, this year, he can do whatever he wants.
At the very least, I'm angry at the moment, and I have to punish this man, so let's get angry.
The next day, I took the child back to my mother's house, and my husband called several ** in the past few days, but I didn't answer. Because I want him to figure it out for himself.
Husband and wife don't have the same heart, and they don't respect each other, they really can't live, I have never guarded against him, but what about him? I have always regarded my understanding and tolerance as weakness and deception.
What would you do if you met such a husband?