My husband counts all my shortcomings every day, is it not that he doesn t love me

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-22

My husband and I live separately, and we spend less time in the year. I took care of his parents and our two children at home, but every time he came home from vacation, he would pick his nose and look at me in various ways. So I looked forward to him coming home from the beginning, and slowly I no longer looked forward to the family reunion, I felt that I was living with the old man with the baby, although I was a little tired, but my heart was comfortable. Does he not love me?

Over the years, we have bought houses for our two children, and the family has also changed townhouses, and the children's education funds and the money for the pension of both parents and us in the future are also very well prepared, and there is no burden on life.

But I still keep the habits of the time when I first got married, and I am frugal. I don't want to buy anything, including buying clothes for myself. I don't usually do beauty and rarely go shopping, I don't buy luxury goods, I only do simple skin care, so I don't look young anymore. But my husband looks like me. But every time he comes back, he doesn't say that I'm **black, **rough, or that my clothes are ugly, that I'm fat, and even that I'm not used to it, but my child is obviously admitted to 985, well-behaved and sensible, and the other junior high school also has good grades, and he is very polite and educated. I don't know why this is the topic of conversation that he counts us down.

I chose to have a good chat with him the night before yesterday, wanting to ask him what he thought, but he assured me that he just said it casually, really not to slander me, and said that he couldn't speak, and the way he expressed it was wrong, it was really not that he didn't love me, and it wasn't that he didn't want to continue living with me... I'm confused, is this true?

Man, why is it so complicated? You can tell me that you don't love anymore, you can tell me that you want to separate, what made you choose a lie after weighing the pros and cons?

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