Midsummer night, the promise under the stars, the vow blown by the wind, seems to announce eternity. But when love moves from romance to reality, the feelings that once swore to last forever will slowly fade away like a candle in the wind. Why does that deep love disappear? What kind of story and truth is hidden behind this?
1. The original intention of love: the starting point of romance.
Freshness: The beginning of every romance is often accompanied by freshness. Infatuation, longing, and curiosity about each other are the initial driving forces of love.
Looking forward to the future: Lovers in love draw a blueprint for a common future and look forward to spending each other every day in the future.
Romantic atmosphere: the sweetness of first love, the joy of newlyweds, these are the energy that the romantic atmosphere injects into love, making love full of vitality and vitality.
2.Realistic Effect: Falling from the clouds.
Exhausted by everyday chores: There are often more chores in life than we think. Work pressure, family chores, financial constraints, ......These will wear away the original romantic love.
The gap between expectations and reality: In the early stages of a relationship, we tend to view each other too ideally. However, as time goes on, as the shortcomings of the other party become apparent, the gap between expectations and reality also appears.
Externalities and influences: In real life, we encounter all sorts of things. These may come from work, friends, or anything else, and they can influence and test your naturally strong love.
3.Rediscovering Love: Bridging Reality and Romance.
Continuous effort and dedication: Love does not happen overnight, it requires constant effort and dedication. We need to keep reminding ourselves that love requires the management and hard work of both parties.
True Communication and Understanding: Communication in a relationship involves both listening and speaking. Only by truly understanding each other can we find a common language between two people and truly realize heart-to-heart communication.
Cherish every moment: Every moment in life is unique. We should cherish every moment we spend with our loved ones, whether sweet or hard.
From romance to reality, love is a process that every couple has to face. But as long as we have enough courage and determination, as long as we are willing to pay for love, those promises and vows will become a reality, not just a bubble in the wind.