Winston Churchill once said: ". .There are no eternal friends and no eternal enemies in this world, only eternal interests"Human nature is selfish in nature. Selfishness is to live, and selfishness gives rise to competition; In order to live better, people have to cooperate with each other. But whether it is competition or cooperation, a normal person is in pursuit of the maximization of self-interest.
Talking about feelings and morality without interests is actually the most immoral behavior。The so-called traditional virtues such as kindness, putting others before oneself, valuing love and righteousness, and going to the soup and fighting the fire are all poisonous chicken soup for people, which is just the ruling method of the foolish people, and whoever believes in it suffers. Those ruling classes, did they do it themselves?
For example, if you and your old friend stop contacting each other as you walk. Why? Because the circles are already different and no longer need each other!
As an adult, you must see the logic of the real society and the essence of interpersonal relationships, and you must not be bound by the traditional preaching of the school. Thoroughly understand the following 8 sentences, and don't be stupid again:
1. When I was a child, in order to find a playmate, I needed feelings to make friends; In order to survive and develop when you grow up, you need to make friends.
2. As an adult, think and weigh everything from the perspective of interests, and your road will be smoother and smoother; If you always think about things from an emotional and moral point of view, you will get more and more tired, and the road will only get narrower and narrower, or even have no way out.
3. If no one takes the initiative to contact you again, it means that you have no value in the eyes of others. If you are still thinking about others, you are actually doing it yourself.
4. Don't take any relationship too seriously, if you take it too seriously, you will definitely be hurt. No matter what your relationship is with the other person, if the other person can neither bring you benefits nor provide you with emotional value. Choosing to stay away is the wisest choice.
5. It's not scary to have no friends. The scariest thing is that you go to make fox friends in order to eliminate loneliness and loneliness.
6. If you have no value to others, and you are submissive and inferior in front of others, you are only belittling your own personality.
7. Others respect you, not because of your good character, but because you are strong and useful to others. You are weak, and even dogs will despise you and bully you; If you are strong, the whole world will be kind and respectful to you.
8. Low-key is for capable people, if you are useless and pretend to be low-key, it is just a joke in the eyes of others.
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