Non relatives, guarded for more than ten years! The 70 year old Xiao Zhu is the support of the lon

Mondo Health Updated on 2024-02-01

"With Xiao Zhu here, everyone can rest assured! "Lane 1040 of Hejian Road in Yangpu District was originally a family area of Shanghai Electric Power University, and most of the residents here are old faculty members of the school. Zhu Huiqun, who has a well-known reputation among residents, is actually 70 years old and is a team leader of the school's retirement management committee. After retiring, Zhu Huiqun had such a responsibility, and successively served more than 50 retired colleagues living nearby. In the past 15 years, she has not only become a bridge between the old unit and the old colleagues, a reliable partner for a group of elderly people, but also a dependence of the two neighbors who are lonely and elderly.

Zhu Huiqun. What others have, she will have it too."

Big beauty! "Eh! ”

The 6th floor of the Aiguang Nursing Home in Yangpu District is full of joy, which is the 90th birthday of the lonely old Zhang Jianying. Zhu Huiqun and the teachers of the school's retirement management committee brought cakes and other gifts, and had a lively time with the elderly with the nurses and doctors of the nursing home.

In fact, Zhang Lao has suffered from Alzheimer's after experiencing cerebral infarction in recent years, and he is not very able to talk and recognize people. But Zhu Huiqun teased her and called her a "big beauty", and the old man smiled happily and responded happily.

Zhu Huiqun visited Zhang Jianying.

Time rewinds to one day 11 years ago, Zhu Huiqun suddenly received a ** from the neighborhood committee. The other end was very anxious, saying that Zhang Jianying, a retired teacher, had fallen nearby, and because he was a lonely old man, the neighborhood committee could not find anyone else, and hoped that Zhu Huiqun could go and take a look. When Zhu Huiqun heard this, he rushed to the scene to keep up with 120 without saying a word, and sent the delirious Zhang Jianying to the nearest Yangpu District Central Hospital**. Zhang Jianying was 78 years old that year, and from that day on, Zhu Huiqun became Zhang Jianying's "guardian". This guard is more than ten years.

After that fall, Zhang Jianying was no longer able to take care of himself. Zhu Huiqun inquired everywhere, and finally found the closest Aiguang nursing home to her home, which was convenient for her to visit and take care of. When he first lived in the nursing home, the careful Zhu Hui ** now has family members around him to take care of them, and if they either come to accompany them, they eat well. "Everyone else has it, but she doesn't have it alone, no! Zhu Huiqun went out to buy a pigeon in the small vegetable market and went back to stew soup for Zhang Jianying.

Zhu Huiqun is the support of the lonely old Zhang Jianying.

It is less than a kilometer from Hejian Road 1040 to Aiguang Nursing Home, Zhu Huiqun has walked back and forth on this road over the years, I don't know how many times, she goes to the nursing home from time to time to see Zhang Jianying, worry about her nutrition, chat with her, and help her comb her hair. Every time he left, Zhang Jianying asked, "Xiao Zhu, when will you come again?" ”

Fruits are also expensive and of high quality, and protein powder is also a big brand ......Over the years, I have come into contact with many guardians of the orphaned elderly in nursing homes. I have never seen such a good person as Mr. Zhu, and her family's concern for Zhang Jianying is really more like a relative than a relative. From the communication and discussion of major diseases to the details of daily diet, Ying Manzhen, a general practitioner in a nursing home, is full of Zhu Huiqun's concern for Zhang Jianying.

In recent years, the old man's health is not as good as before, he often has sudden illnesses, and he needs to go to the hospital every two months to change the gastric tube. It is only 500 meters from the nursing home to the Yang Center, but this section of Boyang Road is a small road that witnesses the footprints left by a lonely old man and a guardian at every difficult moment.

She's like a little kid".

Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and it is a rare luck and blessing to meet good neighbors who are full of love and dedicated to others. 60-year-old Wang Jindi is not God's darling, she suffers from congenital epilepsy and brain atrophy, and has low intelligence. Her mentally ill brother and bedridden mother also died more than a decade ago, leaving her alone. When the queen mother was dying, she was the daughter who couldn't take care of herself and needed to take medicine every day. Zhu Huiqun promised her that he would definitely take care of Wang Jindi.

Wang Jindi has a somewhat willful personality due to congenital diseases, and occasionally loses her temper. Zhu Huiqun is never impatient, "She is like a child, just coax." She asked Wang Jindi to come to the house to take a shower and change clothes, prepare sweets and snacks to reward her for completing personal hygiene tasks; During the New Year's holidays, Wang Jindi is always asked to come to the house, sit around the dining table together, and toast to the reunion.

One year, on Wang Jindi's birthday, Zhu Huiqun made a table full of dishes and called the neighbors upstairs and downstairs to celebrate Wang Jindi's birthday together. In the song of "I wish you a happy birthday", everyone asked Wang Jindi to make a wish, blow out candles, and cut a birthday cake. Wang Jindi said: "I want to be with you all the time, and I have a cake to eat on my birthday every year." "Everyone laughed, and the candlelight on the cake and the laughter around warmed everyone. So every year on Wang Jindi's birthday, Zhu Huiqun celebrates her and listens to her ...... make a birthday wish that will remain unchanged year after year

Neighbor Zhu Huiqun became Wang Jindi's dependence.

For more than ten years, with Zhu Yiqun here, Wang Jindi has no worries about food and clothing, clean and tidy, and has a very happy life. Everyone asked Wang Jindi: "Is Teacher Zhu good to you?" She always replied in a loud voice: "Teacher Zhu is very good to me and takes good care of me!" ”

To benefit the masses is to serve the masses."

I didn't do anything, it was just a normal thing. "Whether it is the matter of retired colleagues, the affairs of the community around him, or the things of his previous work, in fact, Zhu Huiqun has always been a serious and enthusiastic person. Haijun asked about the ** of her name, and she was embarrassed to say the meaning - "Hui" Shanghainese dialect reads the same as "for", and Huiqun means to serve the group and the masses. This name was given to her by her father, who was a teacher and a student of the school all his life, and his requirements for his children were also to be kind, serious and enthusiastic about doing things.

Zhu Huiqun's small family has also inherited the family style of kindness, "They are all free to me, and they can do whatever they want." Speaking of her son and lover, Zhu Huiqun smiled, and her family supported her in spirit and action for any decision. In recent years, Zhu Huiqun's own health has not been very good, and he has been hospitalized many times for cardiogenic atrial fibrillation**. If you can't run or finish what you can't do, your lover will silently and consciously go up to it without complaint.

Zhu Huiqun visits retired colleagues.

People influence each other. Aunt Dong, a resident of the community, was infected by Teacher Zhu and helped take care of Wang Jindi's diet and daily life; The team leaders are also enthusiastic people, and everyone works together to take good care of the school's retired teachers. "Speaking of which, the block leader is not a job, and it is not paid at all. It's more of a volunteering and responsibility. Liu Jierong, retired party secretary of Shanghai Electric Power University, said, "Mr. Zhu and their group of 'post-70s' block leaders are the treasures of the school!" With them, the situation of each of the more than 500 retired faculty members can be paid attention to in a timely manner, so that everyone can rely on their old age. ”

Not long ago, Zhu Huiqun added another responsibility to himself. After a long period of hard work, with the endorsement and support of the school, Zhu Huiqun was officially approved by the civil affairs department to become Zhang Jianying's legal guardian. This means that the lonely old Zhang Jianying has a more solid support, and her "Xiao Zhu" has more powerful support to protect her last life.

Gold Coast Studios.

Author |Yi Rong.

Photography |Yi Rong Provided by the interviewee.

Edited |Lu Jiahui.

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