Introduction:
Smart people in the world, only eight buckets of talent can not become a big tool. People who are late bloomers first cultivate internal skills and then move external enemies. Be a man and stay in a line, and retreat early; Treat others with a hand, and human favors cannot be empty. This well-known sentence of earnest instruction has opened the door to human sophistication for us.
In real life, interpersonal relationships are complex, especially in the workplace, and the interaction between leaders and subordinates is more delicate. Through an unexpected dinner incident, we may be able to understand the deep philosophy of how to behave in the world.
Case Study: Lao Liu, the retired leader of our unit, is still active in the social circle after retirement. One day, he informed his subordinates in advance, hoping to get together when passing by in our city. It was originally an ordinary dinner, but due to an unexpected increase in the number of people, the originally expected expenses were instantly raised. Although the arrival of five old friends is a gratifying thing, it also tests the master's ability to bear it to a certain extent.
Logical analysis: In the sophistication of human feelings, courtesy and exchange are a basic principle. The host arranged a homestay for Lao Liu in advance, and even took the initiative to invite guests, showing some enthusiasm. What I didn't expect was that Lao Liu brought four to continue to reflect:
This small dinner party may be an insignificant scene in life, but it contains extended thinking and prospects
In this complex society, interpersonal relationships are not only a workplace skill, but also a life wisdom. Taking a step back and treating others with a heart and bearing determines the height we can achieve in interpersonal communication. And the real master is not to seek power with power, but to see the truth in the ordinary, and express the depth in the subtleties.
Perhaps, this little thing is a reminder of life, reminding us that when we treat people with sophistication, we might as well be more sincere and less calculating. In the course of communication, what is gained is not material wealth, but peace of mind. Because, when we are tolerant, our hearts can be truly liberated.
Thoughts on the future:
In the future, perhaps we will face more similar scenarios, where the hospitality of leaders or colleagues, and our own hospitality are inevitable links in interpersonal communication. But no matter what situation you are in, you need to treat others and interpersonal relationships with a peaceful heart and a tolerant mind. This is not only workplace wisdom, but also a manifestation of mature mind.
Positive attitude towards life:
Every experience is an unforgettable lesson, and every interaction is an interpersonal grind. Learning to accept and understand can not only make your state of mind more peaceful, but also make your interpersonal relationships more harmonious. Growing up in tempering and being tolerant in understanding is a positive attitude towards life and a broad road to success and happiness.
Enlightenment: Maybe at a certain moment, we have all had the entanglement and helplessness of dealing with human feelings, but when we learn to understand with a peaceful heart, with a tolerant attitude to tolerate, whole.