The beauty of love lies not in the attachment that stays tight, but in the spiritual agreement, so that each other can be happy and promoted. There are different opinions about the origin of love. February** Dynamic Incentive Program
Biologists believe that biological factors such as dopamine and oxytocin in the human body play a decisive role; Psychologists believe that love is related to the absence and perfection of personality; Historians believe that the generation of love follows the law of human survival and evolution, and that having this emotion helps to survive better.
The ** of love is not important, the point is that its existence allows us to experience happiness more deeply. Think about it, if there is no love, what will the world and human society become?
That would be unimaginable. The beauty of love has been throughout human history, and even in feudal societies that were considered to be the shackles of love, there were many moving love stories.
In ancient poems, we can find traces of these loves.
Between the lines, we can feel his insistence on love"Once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud", he used the sea and Wushan as a metaphor for his attachment to love.
Yoo Yong uses it"The belt gradually widened and did not regret it, and it made people haggard for Yi", expressing his dedication and dedication to love, not regretting it, even if he is haggard, he is willing. Su Shi's"Ten years of life and death, without thinking, unforgettable", but also expressed his deep nostalgia for love and endless thoughts.
However, the love in these poems, although tactful and subtle, actually contains deep persistence and firmness. Whether in ancient or modern times, love needs to be giving, persistent, and persistent in order to get true happiness.
The ancients' pursuit of love can be described as extremely unrestrained, and this feeling may seem a little incomprehensible today. Even the "Book of Songs", which was praised by Confucius as "thinking innocently", is full of many spicy-eyed love stories between men and women.
If you read it carefully, you will find that the Book of Songs is like a little yellow book, and it does not shy away from the intimate affairs of men and women. In order to gradually show the love of the ancients, let's start with the first poem in the Book of Songs, "Guan Ju".
Guan Ju originated from "The Book of Songs, National Style, Zhou Nan", which can be called a model of love poetry. During their teenage years, many people were able to easily recite this otherwise obscure verse because of its beauty and uniqueness.
And as time goes by, its beauty does not disappear, but becomes more brilliant, like an old wine, the older it gets, the more fragrant it becomes.
Gentleman"Deeply loved"Lady", with the beautiful words in the Book of Poetry to express his deep affection. Although the process of pursuing is full of challenges and uncertainties, he still persists and hopes to get it"Lady"hearts. "
Lady"The image in the poem is gentle, dignified and generous, full of attraction. The poem is full of romance and emotion, making people feel the beauty and sweetness of love.
On the oasis in the middle of the river, Ju Guan Guan and Ming, the perfect spouse in the gentleman's heart; On the left and right of the boat, the jagged wattles swayed in the wind, and the beautiful woman was in his heart day and night.
The ubiquitous thoughts, like the jagged wattles, entangle the gentleman's heart and make it difficult for him to sleep; The jagged wattle swayed in the wind, and the beautiful woman let his piano play his heart to get close to her.
The jagged wattles were scattered on the left and right of the boat, and the beautiful woman became the treasure of his heart, playing music with bells and drums, just for her happiness.
This is a poem that depicts the emotional changes in the process of the gentleman's pursuit of a lady, the loss in the pursuit process and the happiness after getting it, all of which make people empathize with each other, and arouse the deep resonance of men and women in love.
However, this poem is also used by some people as an excuse for **, they use the excuse that every gentleman has the right to chase a lady, but they constantly change their goals in the process of pursuit, which is not the behavior that this poem is trying to promote.
Compared with the popularity of "Guan Ju", the following two poems may not have been heard by many people, but they depict a larger scale of love, and they are both from a woman's point of view, more unrestrained.
Among them, "You Mei" is from "The Book of Poetry, National Style, Zhaonan", and the content is: You Mei is actually seven. Ask me to be a gentleman, and I will be lucky. There are plums, in fact, three Xi.
Ask me to be a gentleman, and I will be in the future. There are plums, and they are baskets. Ask me to be a gentleman, and I will say it.
It turns out that this poem is a bit difficult to understand, that is, the plums are ripe, and there are still seventy percent left on the tree, and the man who wants to marry me should not miss the good day and auspicious day; The plums are ripe, and there are still thirty percent left on the tree, and if you want to marry my man, you must hurry up; The plums are ripe, the plums on the tree have been plucked, and they are about to be cleaned up with a dustpan, and the man who wants to marry me should propose to me quickly, and don't hesitate any longer.
Obviously, this is the voice of a young woman when she is picking plums, she longs for a man to marry her home immediately, the good times cannot wait any longer, if you don't seize the opportunity, you can only leave regrets in the end.
The meaning of this poem is that if all the plums on the tree are gone, I will go home, and by that time, the single dogs will not be too sad. In ancient times, women were more daring and open than women today, and they made no secret of their desire for marriage, but this woman may still not seem unrestrained compared to the person who will appear next.
If you want to experience more of the love story in the Book of Songs, then the chapter "Wild Dead Deer" is definitely worth reading.
The Dead Moose in the Wild depicts a young girl who finds a dead roe deer in the wild and carefully wraps it in white thatch. This scene is not too unrestrained, but it is full of the kindness and love of a girl.
In the spring forest, a youthful girl awaits her sweetheart. In the middle of the woods, small trees are overgrown, and a dead fawn lies on the field. He, a young hunter, wrapped his prey in white thatch and gave it to her, the maiden with a jade face.
Their stories, full of youthful vitality and natural charm, constitute a beautiful picture. Their emotions are warm and direct, without the slightest repression.
Only, in their pleasure, the maiden reminded him to be careful, not to be too rude, not to tear his clothes, not to make too much noise, not to attract the barking of the dogs around him, so as not to attract unnecessary attention.
In this scene, people can't help but think that the young hunter gave her the prey he had just caught, and she liked it very much, so the two of them developed further in the wild.
It's just that the noise in this process is a bit loud, and she hopes that it won't make everyone.
The way of love between men and women in ancient times was direct and sincere, and their attitude towards love was natural and generous, not pretentious. Therefore, they do not shy away from telling spicy love stories, and they also believe that there is no need to avoid private matters between men and women, because love is love, and there is no secret that cannot be said.
This is reflected in ancient texts such as the Book of Songs.