Wen Zixi
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The topic of whether girls should marry far away has always been controversial. Some people say that you must not marry far away, in terms of genderWomen themselves are a vulnerable group, a person married to a distant place, no relatives and no reason, once wronged or simply bullied by the in-laws, what can I do? My mother's family just feels sorry for you no matter how much time and distance they can't do, so they will immediately protect the wronged and helpless you behind you in time.
Many parents oppose their daughters marrying far away, and the focus is that they are worried that their daughters will be helpless if they are wronged, because they are in marriage and understand that husband and wife live differently than boyfriend and girlfriend love, and the possibility of not being wronged after marriage is too small.
But,As a daughter, especially when she is in love, it is difficult to listen to the good words and persuasion of her parents, and she always thinks that she is the exception, because there is love, and she will suffer the so-called grievances? It's just that too much blind self-confidence has made many girls taste the bitterness of "love", and only after getting married did they regret not listening to their parents.
Just brushed a**, a bride married love with zero dowry, but was slapped in the face by a 200 yuan get-off ceremony on the wedding day.
It is said that the bride was married far away, did not ask her in-laws for a bride price, and despite the opposition of her parents, she resolutely married the man she loved alone.
According to the etiquette that the bride understands, she asked her in-laws for a 200 yuan off-the-bus gift, but what she never expected was that her in-laws rejected her "unreasonable" request, and the groom said bluntly on the spot: "You love to tie the knot." ”
On the wedding day, the bride shed tears of heartache and remorse because of 200 yuan. She didn't want money, she just wanted love, but she was completely defeated by 200 yuan. The man who fell in love also showed his "ugly" original form in front of 200 yuan.
The groom's sentence: "You love to tie the knot", said very "man", said very "full of confidence".
In the face of the bride's tears, she couldn't show too much sympathy to her through the screen, but was a little angry with her.
Many netizens left messages saying:"How poor is this man you married? Can't even get a 200 yuan off-the-bus gift? Girl, how much do you hate to marry, and you dare to marry such a poor and upright man? ”
In fact, everyone has overlooked a very important point, that is:The groom's impoverished confidence is actually given by the bride.
Many girls have a kind of "rebellious" little willfulness in their hearts, and the more their parents oppose it, the more they have to do it to prove that their parents are wrong. For example, a man whose parents are not optimistic about him wants to marry in the past so that his parents can see how well he married, but the end is often all over the world looking for "regret medicine".
Men see this as wellYou fell out with your parents in order to marry me, even if I treat you badly, you don't have the face to run back to your parents' house for help, so you can only let me bully.
Marry far away, can you retreat to **?
A woman runs to a man and leaves her hometown, even if she is wronged, there is no way out. No relatives, no friends, surrounded by strangers.
Even if you want to run? You run to **? In addition to wandering aimlessly on the streets, who can you find to tell your grievances, and who will lend your shoulder to cry happily for a while?
It is precisely because of this that the man has thought of this, so he dares to say, "Do you love to tie the knot", if you don't marry, go back by yourself, see how you go?
There are always some men who want to empty gloves and white wolves are shouting "If you want a bride price, you are selling your daughter", and some girls just want to prove their "nobility", don't want a bride price, and marry naked. thought that in this way the man would be grateful to her.
It's a pity,The reality is that a man who truly loves you will never marry you with zero bride price. You don't want that because you love him and understand him. But he doesn't give it, and if you go downhill, that's if he looks down on you. In his eyes, you are worthless, so you don't dare to ask him for a bride price, you don't deserve his bride price.
As a girl, you need to know that we are against high bride price, but it does not mean that a man is granted the right to empty gloves and white wolves.
The bride price itself is a kind of etiquette, and it is an attitude for a man to marry you and go home to live a good life, even if it is a bride price of 1,000 yuan, it is also an attitude.
For example, the bride in **, if you don't have zero bride price, you won't make people think that your 200 yuan off-the-bus gift is not worth it; If you don't marry alone against the opposition of your parents, you don't have to cry because of the 200 yuan get-off ceremony. If there are no ifs, that man wouldn't dare to yell at you on the wedding day because of a mere 200 yuan, "Love is not knotted." ”
Remind all women to be married: you don't want money, you are pure, you are so coaxing, you don't want anything, you don't want anything, so you are destined not to be cherished. Remember, this society does not advocate money worship, but we must not do anything to lower our value, this is human nature. (*From **screenshot).