Title: The bride gets married with a big belly, netizens: I'm not afraid of getting pregnant and getting married, I'm afraid of infertility after marriage!
Getting married and having children is a major event in life, and for almost all couples, an important purpose of entering marriage is to get married and have children.
Although many people despise the saying that "marriage is to have children", such a thing as getting married and having children is a "painful and happy" thing. It is said that marriage is not to have children, but in fact, for the vast majority of people, the purpose of marriage is not only to find a support, but also to find an emotional sustenance, just to have children.
There's nothing to be ashamed of, after all, reproduction is an animal instinct, and it's the most comforting act of the soul, as well as a source of happiness.
In the past, if a woman got pregnant and gave birth to a child before getting married, or attended her wedding with a big belly, she would definitely be poked in the back.
However, over the years, with the opening of social concepts and the change of people's thinking, most people have been slowly forced to accept such a thing as unmarried pregnancy. Of course, objectively speaking, for the vast majority of parents, even so, they don't want their nieces to get pregnant when they are unmarried.
After all, this kind of thing is too risky for girls, and if you meet irresponsible people, the price will be too great.
Recently, a couple got married, and the bride was very beautiful, wearing a red traditional dress, painted with delicate makeup, and smiling, which was really beautiful.
However, if you look closely at the bride, it is obvious that the bride's belly has risen up, and there is no doubt that she is pregnant. And at this level, it looks like she should have been pregnant for a few months. It is not uncommon for pregnant to attend their own weddings, and there are even many brides who bring their children to the wedding.
As the saying goes, it's not strange to see a lot, and it's not strange to see more. And the bride was obviously lucky, she met a responsible husband, and finally gave her a happy and stable home.
Regarding the situation of the bride getting married with a big belly, many netizens said that there is nothing unacceptable, after all, it is better to get pregnant before marriage than to be infertile after marriage.
This is not an appropriate statement, but if you think about it, you can't help but say that it is a true reaction to the reality of the situation.
In recent years, although everyone's life has improved, and the standard and quality of living have improved, have you noticed that there are more and more cases of infertility. Many young couples, although they are not old, is a good age for childbearing, but they can never get pregnant after marriage, and some can get pregnant, but they also go through a lot of hardships to conceive, not to mention that today's pregnant women are becoming more and more serious about malformations, miscarriages, and premature births. That's not a good thing.
But in the end, I still have to say that the situation of pregnancy is more serious, but it does not mean that everyone agrees with the view that "pregnancy before marriage is stronger than infertility after marriage", because this view has logical problems, and it is also a harm to women.
Both men and women are raised by their parents. Isn't a woman worthy of marriage if she can't get pregnant?Besides, many people have daughters, who wants their daughters to be "tried" before marriage, and then someone else decides whether to get married or not?Isn't that a bad thing?Who doesn't feel distressed when it's a father?
In any case, premarital pregnancy should be avoided as much as possible, and no parent is willing to accept the situation of their daughter getting pregnant before marriage. Even if you are pregnant, in case you don't want it, in case you are dumped, wouldn't it be very costly?
Marriage is marriage, it is sacred, and it also requires both parties to have a strong sense of responsibility, and if they can't get pregnant, then try to **, instead of comparing it with the idea that pregnancy before marriage is better than infertility after marriage.
No woman wants to be used as a pre-marital "test subject".
We can accept the fact of pregnancy before marriage, but we cannot support the idea of "pregnancy before marriage", and we must strongly oppose the practice of falling in love with the distorted concept of "trying to conceive before marriage".
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